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Rwanda Beautiful Rwanda March 2010

2010-03-18T06:20:00.000-07:00

Shyogo Village

2010-03-18T06:13:00.000-07:00

Further down the village we walked to another family home, the parade of women and children remained with us. They welcomed us with a full audience and a dozen more neighbors came out. There was just this great sense of love and excitement filtering around us. We left them after a long conversation

moving on...

2010-03-18T06:10:00.000-07:00

Our second visit was to the home of the poorest lady in the sector. She is widowed with six children. We walked to her hut with a parade of children and women. So surreal. The sector leaders introduced us to her and explained that we wanted to address her need for a home. She was weighed down with this gesture and didn’t quite know how to respond. We left her with her eyes bright and glossed over with tears and her smile big..

Shyogo Village - Lolance's New Home

2010-03-18T06:03:00.000-07:00

Today we visited the Shyogo Sector in Kayonza – we purchased the home for the Refugee Woman from Tanzania. Sector leaders greeted and welcomed us. Our sponsor son, from Tanzania, was with us and to his surprise and ours – she was in his village and he knew her. He was overwhelmed with gratefulness for the gesture and so happy in his heart!

Dancing together...

2010-03-18T05:57:00.000-07:00

In celebration of International Women's Day!!!

Finding HOPE in a broken world.

2010-03-18T05:54:00.000-07:00

Family Love

2010-03-18T05:50:00.000-07:00

Sunday Butare

Spending the day with Esther’s family in Butare. They have finally shifted to their new home… They are overwhelmingly happy and feel so very blessed. After 16 years of separation, this family is now complete and together. The transformation of these lives and the new beginning for this family is so significant and powerful. A big thank you for goes to Robert and Violate for their work and efforts with this. Thank you to Loice for creating a space of trust with them - giving them a voice and listening. Once again, an emotional and heart filling day! ♥

Meet Lolance...

2010-03-18T05:11:00.000-07:00

In honor of 50 years of marriage - my brother and sister-in-law wanted to share their blessings of life and marriage. To honor this, they have bought a home for a woman with four children. She is a refugee from Tanzania, who came back to Rwanda and instead of going with the other refugees to Kageyo refugee camp she went to Kayonza to look for her land - which was no longer. She was given a small parcel to settle on, so she built her thatched hut out of banana leaves - where she now resides with her family. Her children are with great hunger and malnourished. Her eyes held great sadness. Our hearts were torn and our eyes were filled with tears. Robert translated to her that she will be in a home soon before the heavy rains commence and that this was a gift of great love from Duane & Mary… Thank you for making a difference in the lives of this family! I am a proud sister! Thank you Loice for your compassion and for creating a save and caring space for her to share her story. Thank you Robert for finding this family in need and for leading us to her.

Damalisi

2010-03-18T05:05:00.000-07:00

Meet Bunny’s sponsor family. It started with a new roof, then two parcels of land, and then a new little hut was built on her property so she can rent it for income. She has been lifted out of poverty and is now providing food for her family. She lives with HIVAides and has progressed to a balance state of health. Our eyes held such sweet tears as we visited about Bunny. She would have been proud that her empowerment of this woman has lifted her and her family to another level. Bunny you continue to make a difference and your work is not finished here on earth!

Kayonza March 2010

2010-03-18T01:52:00.000-07:00

Saturday March 6, 2010

We had an awesome greeting at Kayonza when we picked up Esther at the orphanage … Sweet Esther – it was so wonderful to have her in our arms and with us again!!! Lots and lots of hugs going on here!

Farewell To Rwanda

2009-02-16T20:58:00.000-08:00

Thank you to everyone who has made this journey with us. We realize that before you get started, you own the journey but after you begin, the journey owns you.

Once again, our time here with everyone, especially Robert, Esther, Emma, Carol, Steven, Violate, Rebecca and the beautiful daughters of the Esther Home, has been profound. Our hearts are a bit tender today as we say our goodbyes.

Love Is In The Air

2009-02-15T20:50:00.000-08:00

Valentine Gifts From Glacier to the Esther Home Girls.

Happy Valentine's Day From Rwanda!

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Love through their eyes!

Mentoring Hearts

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Pictured above are the mentoring partners of the Esther Home Girls. The girls selected mentors to help them reach their fullest potential. It was a wonderful afternoon and a great start for this new Esther Home Mentorship Program.

We Shall Be Free

2009-02-13T11:21:00.000-08:00

When the last child cries for a crust of bread…
When there is shelter over the poorest of heads…
We shall be free.

When the last thing we notice is the color of skin.
When the first thing we look for is the beauty within.
We shall be free.

Maria Muldaur

Believing in the Power of "One"

2009-02-13T11:04:00.000-08:00

“one “ can make a difference and she truly did...

Our dear friend Bunny, who could not join us this trip, sent funds and requested us to do something that would lessen the burdens of everyday life for someone. As we made our way to Kayonza we asked Rebecca, who is responsible for 1,000 students at the New Life Academy, if she would assist us with this mission. Without much thought she directed us to this loving and needy family.

Vestine, a child sponsored through ANLM, took us to her family’s home. She was excited to have us visit with her family. Vestine is a good student and is the only one in her family that has ever had the opportunity to have a sponsored education.

Vestine’s mother, Damarce, was waiting outside for us. Her slight figure was dressed to greet visitors. Her eyes were bright with excitement and she warmly welcomed us inside her home. Her older son brought in a bench for us to sit on and then our conversation started. Damarce wanted to share her story with us, thinking that we were Vestine’s sponsors. She informed us that she was HIV positive but with the government allocation of drugs she is able to maintain her health. Her big challenge was finding enough food to feed her family and herself; the drugs require her to eat regulary, which is not always possible. Her husband died of aides and left her with five children, three boys and two girls. Unfortunate circumstances left her 15 year old daughter with a young baby; who she now is carrying for too. One could look around and see the home was in great need of a roof. A tarp covered most of the roof and other large holes were covered with bricks, banana leaves and wood.

We then shared with her our intent for the visit and that our dear friend Bunny wanted to gift her a new roof to lessen her burden. She held herself very still, hardly daring to breathe; her eyes were wide and brimming with tears and so was ours. She embraced us with great affection and asked us to give her love and prayers to our dearest friend. So thank you our dear friend Bunny; you have made a difference once again.

It was an end to a beautiful day – the day was crisp and sunny; the sky was a soft cerulean blue, intersected with puffy clusters of white clouds – once again, our hearts were swelled with overwhelming love.

God is Great!

2009-02-12T11:12:00.000-08:00

Our morning started at 5:30 am; it was a sleepless night as we knew that the morning woud take us to the hospital to get Doreen’s biopsy results. We reached the hospital at 7:30 where we waited for an hour and a half. We sat in silence watching the corridors being filled with people seeking medical care. As we sat across from Dr Joseph Vyankandondera’s desk one could feel the heaviness in the air. As he pulled up the lab results on the computer he turned to us with a soft look on his face and a hint of a smile on his face and informed us that all was well. The smile on Doreen’s face was as wide as I have ever seen. Ron and I, choked up, let out a sigh of relief. I looked upward and thanked God for his blessing! God is truly great!

Moving to Kayonza

2009-02-12T10:56:00.000-08:00

With joy in our hearts we then moved to the village in Kayonza. 45 minutes later, we arrived at the school to pick up our sponsor children and to see our sweet Esther. The children came out from nowhere; some remembering us from our previous visits and were so excited to see us once again.

Dan Andrews, our youngest sponsor child, greeted us with his big smile. His mother, a cook at the school, was surprised and pleased at our visit. Little hands were reaching up touching my hair and stroking my white skin. The crowd of children just kept on growing and growing.

Goodbyes to our beautiful Esther

2009-02-12T10:52:00.000-08:00

Out of nowhere appeared our sweet Esther; once again flying into our arms. We were so happy to be with her again but there was a knot in my stomach knowing that this too was time for our goodbyes with her. The photo tells the story.

Village Visit - Norah

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Norah is sponsored by the fourth grade class of St Agatha. Glacier and her classmates raise monies each year to sponsor Norah's education. Norah's father is pictured here taking a bath and cleaning shoes. They are so grateful for this sponsorship. They had the class photo in a suitcase being protected from any damages. Norah was so happy and sends her love and thankfulness to the class. It is so very inspiring that this group of students provide sponsorship for this child; giving her this important opportunity in life.

Village Visit - Ismail

2009-02-12T10:36:00.000-08:00

Back in the van moving out into the village to see the four sponsor familes. Before our first stop we made our way to the town’s little store to pick up food and staples for each of the families. Our first stop was Ismail’s home. The little family was waiting to see us once again. We were saddened by the news of the loss of their baby. The neighboring children gathered around; candy was passed out and big smiles spread across their small faces. One just cannot get enough of the joyfulness from these village families

Village Visit - Ruth

2009-02-12T10:21:00.000-08:00

Ruth, who travels by foot several miles to school each day, shyly sat in the Van next to the other sponsor children. When we were reaching her home you could see a small smile spread across her face. We were a bit confused because we weren’t traveling on the same road. When we finally arrived we noticed a small banana leaf roofed igloo-type hut. We were stunned and worried that this family that was progressing out of poverty had returned to their past condition. A half built mud hut stood right next to it and a small garden was growing was planted on the property. We followed Ruth to the hut and her parents and siblings appeared and so excited to see us. They are sponsored by Nicole and family; for three years they have been given extra monies besides the school sponsorship.

The father began to tell us that with the monies he bought this small piece of land and has been building his own hut for his family. We were overjoyed and proud of his ability to use his monies to take his family out of staggering poverty. When we met this family three years ago on our first mission to Rwanda we were overwhelmed by their poverty. To realize what a little money can do to change lives is so powerful!

Village Visit - Hubba

2009-02-12T10:12:00.000-08:00

Unfortunately Hubba (my special name for him) was at school and we were not able to visit with him but his mother was home. She didn’t expect us and when she saw us she rushed into my arms and kept repeating “we are friends forever!” I love this lady; my first trip to Rwanda she sat at the school house all day waiting for me and gifted me a hand-made basket full of her week’s ration of beans. We truly do share a special friendship.

Village Visit - Isa & Abubakar

2009-02-12T09:49:00.001-08:00

Visiting Isa’s home was especially meaningful this particular time. In this past year I have made a new friend, Mary from Washington State - who sponsors Isa’s brother. She is a women with a great love for this family and sponsors more than just the schooling. Abubakar, Mary’s sponsor child, was at school so Steven and Isa went for him. He was surprised at our visit and very touched by the beautiful words that Mary had sent with me for him. He is a bit shy but so very sweet. We had a long conversation with Salama, their mother, and she was so very appreciative for the support from Mary and us. She is raising five children on her own. Abubakar’s father is awaiting his trail in the Gacaca; Isa’s father disappeared after his birth; the father of the twins, 5 years of age and the baby, age 3, abandoned them and moved to Uganda. But with the continued support and love from Mary she feels very blessed. They live in great poverty.

Our sweet sponsor child, Isa, is doing well in school and progressed in the last few years. We are proud of him!

Esther Home Family Visit - Patience

2009-02-11T07:36:00.000-08:00

Feeling much better today we were off to two more Esther Home visits. We arrived in Gasabo district before noon to visit with Patience’s family. Patience’s father was a solider who was lost serving his country. Patience’s stepfather and young brother greeted us. Her youngest brother was just released from the hospital after seven days battling malaria and a disgestive bacteria. He is doing better now and we are so thankful. Patience’s mother made her way from work to visit us shortly after we arrived; along with her sister and another younger brother. A family affair it was. We visited for a long time and enjoyed getting to know about their lives and the difference that they are making in their small community. They do not have much but manage to find enough to share. Patience’s mother makes pooridge and serves the poorest of the poor in her community so they do not go without food. They also collected and saved enough funds to sponsor six families with health care coverage. This is a family with a big heart of giving and taking care of their own. They truly were inspirational and very grateful for the opportunities provided for their daughter.

Paying It Forward

2009-02-11T07:34:00.000-08:00

Our lovely Patience and her sponsor child are pictured above. Patience receives a small monthly allowance through the Esther Home Program, where she manages to sponsor this child to go to school and provides for her uniform and other scholastic materials needed. Patience has a big heart and with her mother encouragement and support she now is making a difference in the life of this young child who is 10 years old. We are so very very proud of her and her commitment to changing lives. Yes, “one” can make a difference in this world!

Esther Home Family Visit - Doreen K.

2009-02-11T07:29:00.000-08:00

We then move onto to our newest Esther Home daughter, Doreen K. Doreen joined the Esther Home this year and is in first year of University. Doreen came to this program with high scholastic marks and is in the process of transitioning out of her home where she is the eldest and has the responsibility of taking care of her large family. Doreen’s father is not present in the home.

We arrived at Doreen’s to find her mother suffering from Typhoid. She was very ill but she managed a smile on her face now and then and in her small, quiet voice she extended to us a warm greeting and appreciation for Doreen’s opportunity.

We were very taken back by the condition and suffering of her mother. The gentle way that Doreen cared for her was with such tenderness and love. We understand the challenges for Doreen to maintain focus on her education and yet carry the heavy burden of this family.

Our stay was limited but very profound. We pray that God protects and heals her soon.

Back to the hotel to prepare for our big day tomorrow. First we will move to the hospital to acquire the results of Doreen I’s biopsy . Then we will travel to Kayonza to the villages where our sponsor families live. This is always a highlight of our trip. Seeing the big smiles of the face of our sponsor children and the loving hugs from their parents. Friday will be an off day preparing for the Mentorship Luncheon for 28 women; Sunday we will celebrate Valentines Day and party on at the Esther Home with Pizza and Fantas. On Tuesday we will conclude our journey and travel back to the states. It has been quite the journey and we fill very full in our hearts. Once again thank you for journeying with us and for your prayers and good wishes.

Our Traveling Team

2009-02-11T07:15:00.000-08:00

Steven and Robert; moving us in the van place to place. Carol, the Esther Home Facilitator, manages the home and these beautiful girls. We are thankful for this team and their guidance, they have made this journey a memorable one.

To Grandma's House We Go

2009-02-09T12:11:00.000-08:00

Not only has the stormy weather and the power outages been affecting our blogging time, but the whole of the weekend was spent in bed recovering from the traveler’s bug. Feeling much better now, minus a few pounds - no complaints there. With a bounce back in my step we have continued on our journey.

Our visit to “Grandmas” was so heartfelt. Grandma is the mother of Violate and Devota, two sisters that are responsible for taking Esther off the streets of Butare. Grandma has housed Esther during school breaks and holidays since she was first brought to the orphanage. She is a woman of great substance and has cared for not only her children and her grandchildren that have been left orphaned, but she has reached her hands out to many others during her lifetime. An amazing woman! She is with her grandson, Wilbur, in this photo.

We shared great laughter together and love. Her home was adorned with photos we have brought to her of our family and hers. She proudly wore an Esther Home Tee Shirt and her smile was infectious.

It put the sunshine back into this very cloudy gray day.

Esther Home Family Visit - Yvonne

2009-02-09T12:06:00.000-08:00

We did not need to travel far to visit with Yvonne’s family. Yvonne’s father, Robert, met us and graciously welcomed us to their home. Yvonne is one of five girls and has one brother; which they call “boy” - he was the only of her siblings that was at home. He is currently waiting for his national exam results and is confident that his exams scores will be high enough for him to be sponsored by the government to go to the University. Yvonne’s mother, who was in the Women For Women Program, is now employed and working with children; she arrived shortly after we came and was eager to see us once again.

Yvonne’s grandmother had recently passed on. They shared with us that she was 116 years old at the time of her death. She lived in a small village in Uganda and was cattle raiser. Her oldest son, who is 80 plus years old, was living and caring for her in this small village until her passing. They shared with us that in her lifetime she only drank cow’s milk and ate cassava root.

The cow’s milk lasts only two days and then it turns into a mixture similar to yogurt. Cattle raisers never eat the meat of the cows they raise and they keep their cattle for about five years; selling them only for economic reasons. On holidays they may purchase and eat meat then, but again never from their own stock.

Cassava is a topical root vegetable cultivated in Africa - similar to a potato. Despite the fact that it often plays an important role in people's diets, cassava root is actually not that nutritious. The leaves of the plant have far more protein and nutritional value than cassava root does, in fact. Cassava root can actually be highly toxic, since it contains cyanide and it needs to be carefully handled and treated before it can be consumed. It does have the advantage of growing well in poor soil, and being filling when little else is available.

The root must be grated and soaked or left out in the sun to allow the cyanide to disperse before it can be eaten. Once treated, the cassava root can be ground into flour, kept whole in flakes for various dishes, or processed to extract tapioca. “Sweet” cassava has lower levels of cyanide, and it can be peeled and used like a conventional root vegetable.

Not only did we have a wonderful visit with Yvonne and her family but we left with a great appreciation of the cultural ways of these beautiful people of Africa

Esther Home Family Visit - Esther

2009-02-09T12:01:00.000-08:00

Our day ended with our last visit to Esther’s home. We were warmly greeted by her large family. Today we shared our visit with her mother, three of her sisters and two of her brothers. Her eldest brother, who is 27, is graduating from the University this March with a major in Food Science. We had a wonderful visit with him about the limited opportunities for higher education in Rwanda. He had a great appreciation for the Esther Home program and its focus on providing these young adults this opportunity without the burden of home life demands and financial restrictions. It was a remarkable conversation. Ron did his magic with the camera and the young children enjoyed seeing the images instantly. This is our second visit to Esther’s home additional information about Esther and her beautiful family can be found on the blog archive 2007.

Another day ended with our hearts full and no power outages.

Esther Home Family Visit - Doreen

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We had another early morning - traveling 190 miles to the Bwera area to visit Doreen’s family. The first photo is of Claire and Doreen riding in the Van, it was a chilly morning.

This area is in the game park and where most of the cattle are being raised. The landscape is similar to the bush in South Africa. Once we arrived at Doreen’s we walked for a mile up the foot path to her home; where we greeted warmly by her mother, Grace, sisters Juliette, Gloria, Monique and her 10 year old brother Enock. The children were home from school today to greet us and see their sister. They walk each day to school over five miles one way.

Doreen’s family returned to Rwanda from Uganda after the genocide in 1995 and settled in this region. Because of this being such a remote area the community was very small. Doreen’s family has a small banana plantation and grow maize for their own consumption. On the property were three huts; cooking facility, sleeping hut and their main hut with two rooms. They had freshly been chalked (or painted). Doreen’s mother had weaved the roof on the huts which took about 2 to 3 months to do. Just amazing. It was a wonderful visit

Esther Home Family Visit - Justin

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The next visit was Justin’s home. Again, we were welcomed with great enthusiasm. Justin’s mother, Joyce was just recently widowed. She has a contagious personality; always a smile on her face and great sense of humor. Neighbor children gathered around; peeking through open windows and doors. Before long relatives from nearby joined us in this small hut; squeezing together to receive us. Shortly after we arrived lunch was served; cooked bananas with a thick peanut sauce and African tea. Ron and I graciously passed on lunch.

Time was pressing us to move on; we took some family photos and say our goodbyes and once again we made our way to the main road to our next home visit.

Esther Home Family Visit - Claire

2009-02-06T06:10:00.000-08:00

Claire, the oldest of five girls and sister to two brothers, welcomed us to her home. We were anxious to meet her father. Last time we had visited Claire’s home he was hospitalized with complications with diabetes. He is now doing better and is back teaching secondary class. Claire’s father spoke excellent English. They too came to Rwanda from Uganda in 1994 after the genocide. We enjoyed our visit with Claire’s parents and sister Gloria and shared photos of the refugee feeding last May. After a few photos we again were on the road traveling back to Kigali.

Once again we feel so very blessed to be here and to receive such warmth and love from these beautiful families. No rain today but the country is still experiencing several power outages; we are thankful for the hotel’s generator but that doesn’t keep us connected to the internet; for that we are not so thankful.

No Power, No Internet, No Blogging

2009-02-05T10:01:00.000-08:00

The rainy season in Rwanda starts in February, with that comes sparatic power outages. So hopefully between the outages we can get some blogging done.

Rainy Day

2009-02-05T09:56:00.000-08:00

Today the sun was hidden by dark thick clouds and by mid morning the rain came and it didn’t let up until late afternoon. We are not talking the normal Portland rain but rather like a New Orleans downpour. Today we were geared up with our rain coats and boots. People were anxiously running for shelter; we found this group of market workers waiting out the rain.

Early morning we made our way to the hospital to visit with the surgeon that is caring for one of our Esther Home daughters. The doctor was called to perform an emergency surgery and asked us to come back mid afternoon. The doctor that is attending to her is a surgeon that provides medical service in Burundi, Rwanda and the Congo. On our last visit to Rwanda we met a doctor from Maryland University; he and his staff of doctors that are currently serving in Rwanda assisted us in making this contact and making this possible. We are so very grateful for their assistance!!!

Upon our second return to the hospital we were introduced to the surgeon. Unfortunately the results (after almost a month) were not available to him. They sent us to the lab and then were informed that the biopsy was sent to Butare for additional testing. So we are hopeful that by week’s end we will have more information available to us.

Esther Home Family Visit

2009-02-05T09:42:00.000-08:00

Today is the start of our visits with the families of the Esther Home daughters. We made our way to our Joyeuse’s home to visit with her mother. We were welcomed warmly. We shared in wonderful conversation and enjoyed many photos of their family. Joyeuse’s father, at the age of 46 died in 2001 from complications. Joyeuse’s family left Rwanda during the civil war in 1959 to Tanzania and returned to this country in 1994 after the genocide. Joyeuse is one of five daughters. It was truly a heartfelt visit. We are so very proud of Joyeuse - she produced the highest grades in the Esther home this past year!

Thursday we will be traveling to visit Justin, Claire and Doreen’s families.

Village Life

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Tea Fields

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Prisoners At Work

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With Handmade Soccer Ball

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Rabbit Cages In Cooking Area

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Cooking Area

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Sweet Esther

2009-02-02T05:14:00.000-08:00

As the Van pulled up I could see the wide smile across Esther’s face. The door couldn’t open fast enough; she ran into my arms almost knocking me over. She was so excited to see her “Opa” again and couldn’t get enough of him. It was wonderful to have her with us once again!

Traveling

2009-02-02T05:11:00.000-08:00

The ride to Butare was long – three hours of switch back after switch back. Van after van passed us carrying 18 passengers. In Rwanda they call these public taxis: Twegerane, which means “let’s squeeze”. Truly they are packed in there like sardines. The roadside travelers continue to amaze me; hundreds of people walking mile after mile carrying heavy loads on their heads.

Beautiful Violate

2009-02-02T05:08:00.000-08:00

Once we arrived in Butare we traveled to the hospital to pick up Violate. Violate is employed full time as an Intensive Care nurse and also attends the University studying for an extended degree in Social Work. Violate is responsible for taking Esther off the streets in Butare and bringing her to the Africa New Life orphanage and has been a key person in this adoption process and has become a member of our extended family.

Village Visit

2009-02-02T05:01:00.000-08:00

Shortly afterwards we made our way deep into the village in the Ghoro district to visit Esther’s family. White westerners never visit this area. Upon our arrival we were greeted by a 100 plus villagers. We had brought maize, soap, candles and bed mattresses for Esther’s father. The appreciation and love we received was over the top. They live in a small 10 x 15 mud hut with two small rooms; one where Esther’s sister, father, step mother and new baby sleep on the dirt floor and the other room is used for cooking and storing their 20 rabbits. Outside they were drying sorghum and plant roots. A group of neighbors had gathered to greet us; they had recently formed a co-op to help one another produce food so that no one would go without. After serving thirteen years in prison Esther’s father seems to be adjusting well to his new freedom; they all recognized him as being a respected man of the community. He seemed to have no bitterness for being in prison for 13 years and then found to be innocent of the crime. He has a deep faith in God.

This area encompasses the poorest of the poorest. After we left we felt such a deep sense of sadness and a profound desire to do more.

We gathered for dinner and encountered a four hour wait after we had ordered; I just knew that they went out to butcher the chicken that Robert had ordered. Everyone laughed at that statement and soon afterwards here comes a worker with two live chickens in hand. Only in Rwanda.

Kibeho

2009-02-02T04:56:00.000-08:00

The first Saturday of the month is designated as a country-wide cleanup day with four hour work assignments. All the local businesses were closed and there were very few roadside travelers. After breakfast we journeyed to the Sanctuary of Our Lady Of Kibeho, situated in Gikongoro district, in the southern area of Rwanda, not far from the Burundian border. Kibeho parish was founded in 1934, but after the apparitions of the Virgin May in 1981, it became quickly a place of prayer and pilgrimages. Thousands of pilgrims from all corners of Rwanda and neighboring countries flocked at Kibeho.

The sanctuary is located high on top of one of Rwanda’s thousand hills; the beauty surrounding this area was incredible. We were the only visitors there; as we approached we felt this intense vortex that surrounded this sanctuary. There was an all girl choir performing; their voices echoed into the open air as if the angels were singing from the heavens. Emotions took hold of me, I experienced the wetness of tears descending down my cheeks and I was rooted to the ground like a cypress tree. Robert offered his hand in comfort. I held myself very still taking in all that I could; a heavy cloud of sorrow and worry lifted and I tasted a strong sense of hope and peacefulness. The choir continued to sing the whole duration of our visit.

Before we left I entered the church and knelt in prayer thanking God for bringing me to the most beautiful place in the world.

You Are Beautiful

2009-02-02T04:48:00.000-08:00

Our day moved forward with a kind of determination that comes from people with places to go and things to do. We arrived at the village mid day only to be greeted by more villagers than yesterday. Esther’s family was all dressed in their Sunday best awaiting our visit. Newly washed clothes were scattered across the bushes drying; they had willingly used the soap we had brought to them. The father was dressed in the clothes that Ron had bought him on our last visit to Rwanda; it put a smile on our face and warmth in our heart.

Hundreds of children gathered, smiles wide on their faces, eyes bright with excitement. Ron opened his Northface bag and started handing out soccer and foot balls; at one point he was in the middle of the rutted road teaching them to hike and run for the pass. They all cheered and laughed; there was such a festive atmosphere in the air. Esther and her sister passed out inspirational rubber bracelets. Also a hundred plus “You Are Beautiful” buttons were passed among the villagers. Children were repeatedly saying in a distinct pronunciation the word “beau-ti-ful”. It echoed throughout the village. Ron adorned the women with scarves, their smiles were contagious. One villager said to Esther that this was like Christmas and was so overjoyed. At one point I stood back and watched from afar; Ron was in the middle of a hundred little hands reaching up and touching him. My heart was flooded with happiness and love. Esther’s father, talking through an interpreter, reached for my arm and pointed to Ron and said; “Look at that man with all my villagers, playing with the children, they are all so happy; he is a blessing from God to us.” Once again, tears filled my eyes.

Sharing The Bread

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Ron had roll left from the lunch that we had on our way to the village; he shared it with an elderly man who was standing by taking all of this in. Ron adorned him with a scarf too and he was so thankful. Immediately, the man started eating the bread anxiously and before long there were little hands reaching up to him asking to share with them and he did.

A Pair of Goats

2009-02-02T04:44:00.000-08:00

A few hours later we made our way to the other area of the village to buy a set of goats for Esther’s father. We bought two female goats for a total of $90. He was overwhelmed with our gestures of love for him. Ron shared with him the how-tos of raising goats and explained to him that he now needed to build a shelter for them.

Brother Joels

2009-02-02T04:40:00.000-08:00

As we situated ourselves back in the van and headed out of the village, we had such joy in our hearts. Once again we would hear the choir of children yelling “muzungos muzungos” and chasing after us. We threw candies to them as we passed by; one of Esther’s favorite things to do.

Before we headed back to our hotel we stopped by the orphanage where Esther’s brother Joel lives. He was so happy to see us again; he is a quiet boy with a big beautiful smile. Esther has such a love for her brother. We stayed awhile; Robert and Joel played a little soccer together and Esther handed out balloons to the other orphanage boys. When we were about to leave I looked over at our sweet Esther and her lips were locked into a frown; she was not happy to be leaving her brother and her eyes were wet with tears.

The day ended with another four hour wait for dinner but we had great conversation and laughter filled the our time together.

New Construction

2009-02-02T04:36:00.000-08:00

Yes, Ron is back into construction. He is building a new home for Esther’s family in the village. After meeting with a builder and detailing out the plans; we are hopeful that in four months Esther’s family will have a new home consisting of four rooms, doors, wooden shutters and a metal roof. Violate and Robert will oversee the project. Ron continues to build where ever he is.

Murambi Memorial Site

2009-02-02T04:32:00.000-08:00

We ended our long weekend by visiting the Murambi Memorial Site, south of Butare; a secondary school that houses the remains of victims from the genocide. Lime had been poured over the bodies preserving the remains. Room after room sheltered the remains. My stomach churned as if I might vomit; I sought relief in tears; but the wells of my eyes were dry. Over 50,000 people were here at this site. This memorial site too sits on a hill top with a breathe taking view; on this day one could hear drums being played in a nearby village echoing throughout the valley. It left us once again with grief in our hearts and with no words to express our deep sense of sorrow.

To all our family and friends who are journeying with us, you are continuously with us in spirit and in love; thank you for all your love, prayers and good wishes.

Sweet River

2009-01-29T06:40:00.001-08:00

The morning was a bit chilly after the evening rain but soon turned humid as the day went on. As we made our way to Nyamata to see Robert’s new piece of land we crossed the Nyabarongo River where several flat boats were being loaded with sugar cane that had just recently been harvested in the fields. Once the flat boats were loaded they head down river into Kigali to the Sugar Cane Plant. We could of stayed there much longer the scenery was beautiful.

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Nyamata is the future area for the new airport. The existing airport will be converted into a military base. The road to this area is new and the development plans include a new Serena Hotel and relocation of the downtown area.

Two years ago we started Robert out in a small business with a refrigerator and pop. He established it in an office building and before long he sold it; bought some cows then sold his cows and bought this piece of land. A small house is situated on this quarter of an acre; the tenants are still residing in the house until their new dwelling is complete. We are proud of Robert’s business sense and the vision he has for his future.

URWIBUTSO RWA JENOSIDE Memorial Genocide Site – Nyamata

2009-01-29T06:27:00.000-08:00

Never Again!

As we approached this Genocide site I felt tightness in my chest. We waited outside the Catholic Church for a few minutes and I was overcome with sadness and disbelief. As we entered the church I felt a bit claustrophobic; not sure if I would be able to endure this.

10,000 people had gathered in this church seeking refuge from the killers. I cannot even put into words the horrific details that our guide shared with us. Our guide was a genocide survivor. She was 12 years old at the time of the mass murders in this church. She got buried under several bodies and was covered with blood and assumed dead. Once she realized that the killers had left, she then made her way out from under the bodies and ran to seek protection elsewhere. I am at loss for words.

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Bloody clothes of the victims we piled about two feet high on the church benches; in the back of the church, an area about 15 by 20 feet, there were more clothes of victims but these were from victims that had been killed and dumped in toilets or out houses.

Patrice

2009-01-29T06:07:00.000-08:00

We made our way downstairs to where the skulls and bones were being preserved. One skull had a name carved on it “Patrice” – we were told that in the Gacaca courts (where still 80,000 people are awaiting trials) one of the killers admitted to his crime of killing Patrice and told them where he was buried. Once his remains were dug up they then identified the skull with his name. Many skulls had markings of machete blows, some were broken and cracked. Surreal. The alter cloth was soiled with blood stains; a bullet, a metal file, a knife and a machete were laying there reminding us of the weapons used in these brutal slayings.

Outside the church was two graves; one of a priest killed in 1992 prior to the genocide and the other of a woman missionary who was sheltering these people. There were two large grave sites that contained an additional 41,000 victims. We just couldn’t wrap our minds around the enormity of all of this.

As we were leaving I glanced back inside the church; there stood a statue of the Blessed Mary with her hands folded in prayer; tears pooled in my eyes. Our ride back was sobering; there was this overwhelming sense of sadness and disbelief that this could have ever happened. Our hearts were torn with grief.

Never again!

Be The Change

2009-01-28T11:38:00.000-08:00

Once again our long journey to Rwanda was without incident. All seven bags arrived! Praise the Lord! We were welcomed into open arms; our hearts were full. The evening was warm and humid. After a few hours of sleep and many hours of tossing and turning we finally made our way to breakfast and started our first day of our month long mission here.

Our first stop was to visit the Dream Center; we were in awe of the progress made since our last visit. After several introductions to the staff of Africa New Life we settled in for an extended meeting with Emma reviewing the Esther Home development. We then made our way to the Esther Home for more hugs and greetings.

The girls gathered for a State Of The Esther Home address from Ron. Ron focused on the importance on making education their first and utmost priority; touching on the program’s objective of raising them out of poverty; producing new leaders of Rwanda and affording them the opportunities to pursue their hopes and dreams for their futures. “Education, Education, Education” was the motto of the day.

Keen Footware Partners for Change

2009-01-28T11:22:00.000-08:00

Through Keen's leadership and commitment to social and environmental causes, they hope to encourage and empower others to do the same.

We concluded the afternoon gifting to the Esther Girls shoes and backpacks donated by Keen Footwear. The girls were overjoyed and were with great appreciation for the thoughtfulness of the donors. With their new REI scarfs, shoes and backpacks they all gathered for a photograph. Sincere thanks to Keen Footwear and a great big thanks to Dan Bartels for his kindness in making that contact with Keen!!

This Song Is For You

2009-01-28T11:14:00.000-08:00

Sweet Evas, who has a passion for music and is a talented song writer, shared with us the song that she composed and recorded about the Esther Girls. One could see the sincerity in her eyes and the appreciation that she has for being in the program. Evas wanted to honor us with her music and the song she created. It was so very touching.

Rwanda Here We Come!

2009-01-26T04:59:00.000-08:00

Jumping for Joy

2008-05-21T20:05:00.000-07:00

The team of ten scaled down to a small intimate team of six. Our team members, Dan, Bunny, Fran and Ron departed on Monday. We miss their energy and support.

Today, we made our way back to the Kayonza village to the New Life Academy, where we were greeted by approximately 720 students. Our Northface duffle bags were filled with 850 jump ropes.

Robert (Spsonsor Son), Carol (Esther Home Facilitator) and Rebeka (New Life Academy Staff) assisted us to each classroom. We were greeted in unison by the students in English. The preschoolers and early primary grades were the first to receive the jump ropes. After about an hour all the jump ropes were distributed. The lunch bell rang and as soon as they were out in the open school yard the ropes were swinging high in the air. The excitement was contagious – children were laughing, singing, and moving about the school yard.

Before our departure, we distributed balloons and interacted with the students. They gathered around the van, wished us well and thanked us for the jump ropes. It was truly heart warming to be able to gift a jump rope to each student.

As we made our way to the main store in the village to buy food and essential supplies for our sponsor family visits we noticed several children with jump ropes in the hands and many still wearing the You-Are-Beautiful buttons that were distributed last week. It was wonderful to see this through out the village.

With much joy in our hearts, we traveled back to Kigali. We found ourselves singing, laughing and trying to learn Kinyarwanda. Once again it was a great day in Beautiful Rwanda.

In the kitchen with Bunny

2008-05-21T20:03:00.000-07:00

After a few hours at the Esther Home the smell of fresh baked cookies filtered through out the home. Bunny, after providing the home with cooking and baking supplies, taught the girls to bake cookies and prepare rice, beans and vegetables with a variety of seasonings. Bunny was in her element, the girls gathered around her with such love. An 8 x10 photo of Bunny in a Chef Hat has its place in the kitchen. After the meal was prepared and cookies consumed hot out of the oven, they gathered at the dining table with Bunny for their meal. Bunny brought over sealed packets of seasonings, dried fruit and meat and spices.

After inspection of the kitchen space and analyzing the needs, Bunny, along with Carol contacted a carpenter and hired him to build shelves and storage bins. Bunny’s hiking group and long time friends, provided funds for this special project to be done. It will provide a more organized and workable kitchen space. A thank you goes out to this wonderful group of hikers who have been together for several decades.

Other Esther girls that were participating in a pilate class had a hard time concentrating with the laughter coming from the kitchen and the aroma seeping its way into the work out area.

What a wonderful day we had - lots of laughter, conversation and great relationships were formed. Another wonderful and full day here in beautiful Rwanda.

Sponsor Visits

2008-05-21T20:00:00.001-07:00

Change Of Colors

2008-05-21T19:58:00.000-07:00

Prisoners traveling along the road have changed their uniforms colors from pink to orange.

Bloggger's Notice

For more blogging news please visit Raymond Family blog under My Favorite Blogs. With the constant team activities, programs and Esther Home business it hasn’t allowed much time for blogging. To those who have visited the blog and haven’t found daily updates we apologize but thank you for your interest and support. Please know that your spirit is with us!

Feeding The Refugees

2008-05-20T09:34:00.000-07:00

5-16-08
Post By Cathy Hackett
Tired, dirty, and hungry describes how our small team of ten plus the Esther Home girls arrived at our hotel after a long, hot day feeding refugees on the Rwanda-Tanzania border. We scooped thousands of cups of cornmeal into buckets, canvas sacks, and brightly colored plastic woven carryalls. By the time we were finished, approximately 1500 people had been given various amounts of cornmeal depending on the size of their family. A family of five, for example received 30 rations (between 2 ½ - 3 ½ cups per ration), or six rations per person.
Before the dispersement began, we played with the many children in the area, who showed up long before the other family members. Team members brought Frisbees, balloons, bombos (candy), footballs, soccer balls and other various toys to the delight of the kids. It took quite awhile for the rationing to begin, but once started the process was fairly efficient.
Four different rationing stations were set up, with each family assigned to a station according to where they lived in the camp. It was interesting to note that usually the woman of the family stood in line to receive their family’s portion, while the men sat under the trees in the shade. Most of the women also carried the cornmeal home, many with heavy amounts on her head. The camp manager had rosters containing the names of each person in the camp, so that when a family was called to receive their cornmeal, the volunteers would be told exactly how much to dole out. According to the manager, these people had not received any cornmeal since last November, when Ron and Joyce brought another team to the camp. November is in the rainy season, when after the dirt roads are so filled with water and potholes that it’s impossible for food to be transported to the camp. I can’t imagine the roads being much worse – it was a long, bumpy, dusty trip into the camp! Imagine those roads turning into mud and trying to slog through! When trucks are unable to reach the camp for months at a time, the refugees have to make do with whatever crops they have been able to grow. The last six or seven months have been especially lean thanks to buffalo from the nearby Akagera Game Park eating most of their crops. After the feeding, we walked through the camp distributing portable, fold-up shovels to some of the residents. Fran, one of our team members, works for Gerber, a knife and small tool company. Gerber donated 40 shovels, 25 of which were given here. Most of the people we visited lived in either a tent-like structure or a circular hut made of mud, sticks and palm thatching on the roof. These homes showed pride of ownership, having been swept free of debris around the house, and tidy gardens of corn, sunflowers and sorghum surrounded the individual plots of land. Not a piece of trash in sight. These people are very resourceful in using whatever materials are available. One hut had a door made out of cut-up jerry cans (used to carry water) framed in wood. Again, balloons, soccer balls and candy were given to the ever increasing crowd of children following us.
Maria, one of the Esther Home girls, is a former resident of this camp. She and her brother, Christian, who still lives here, relocated to the camp in 2006 when Tanzania kicked out Rwandans who escaped their country during the 1994 genocide. Other Rwandans had been living in Tanzania since 1959, when Belgium started tribal identification and giving one tribe preferential treatment while ostracizing the others. Many of the people in the camp today were the sons and daughters of grandchildren of the original emigrants. Most had been farmers, owning homes in Tanzania while working the soil, raising cattle and contributing to the Tanzanian economy. I was told most of them were only given a few hours to leave to go back to Rwanda, forcing them to leave most of their belongings behind.
Christian’s and Maria’s plot of land was truly amazing. In a two week period, a tent-like hut reinforced by intricately woven sticks, a fire pit for cooking, a privy and a woven fence were constructed. It was easily the nicest structure there, and together they lived there until Maria arrived at the Esther Home about a year ago. The reunion between the two siblings was really heartwarming, not only for them but for those of us watching as well. They only have each other in this world, and their bond runs very deep.
Today has been one of the hardest, most emotional, humbling and rewarding experiences of my life. Here are people who live in conditions more primitive than any campsite I’ve ever seen, yet they possessed strength and dignity despite their circumstances. The kids laughed and played, and men and women visited with each other during the entire rationing process. As we walked through the camp giving out the shovels, we heard a woman singing. When asked why she was singing, she said she was very happy and that the Lord had blessed her. What a lesson we all could learn!
There’s nothing like having cornmeal in your pores, eyes, hair and shoes to have a 180 degree perspective shift. To a person, we were all affected by today. It was really inspiring to see the Esther Home girls diligently working to help their fellow countrymen. From the youngest ones, Glacier, her new sister Esther, and Glacier’s cousin Taylor, to “Grandma Bunny”, and everyone in between, our hearts were filled with compassion and respect for these people. The next time I want to complain about having to wait a few extra minutes in the doctor’s office, I will remember these people have no doctor. I will remember how many walked long distances for a few cups of cornmeal and then had to turn around and walk that same distance to get home, and I will be thankful that it is so easy to jump in the car for the short drive to the grocery store. I will remember the nursing mothers without clean water to drink and I will be grateful the next time I reach mindlessly in the refrigerator for yet another bottle of water as a half-finished one sits on the counter. I will remember the kids running around in torn, dirty clothes, some without tops, some without pants and I will be thankful for my washer and dryer, and that I have many outfits from which to choose. I will remember that God cares and loves the refugees as much as he loves me, and that it could just as easily be me living in that camp. I will never forget. Ever.

Rwanda Rwanda Beautiful Rwanda

2008-05-14T16:43:00.001-07:00

Greetings to all our families and friends from beautiful Rwanda.

We traveled to Kigali with 1,100 pounds of luggage - 700 pounds designated to our mission programs with the New Life Academy School and the Esther Home. A few bags short but we have faith that within the next few days we’ll have them in our possession.

We had the most amazing reception upon our arrival. We were greeted by 14 beautiful Esther girls, all dressed in their traditional gowns. Their excitement was contagious – hugs hugs and more hugs. Of course Ron had his customary display of emotion which touched the girls. It was their first meeting with Cathy Hackett. They greeted her with such tenderness and appreciation – it was truly a warm heartfelt moment. As we stood by and watched we were all moved and our emotions stirred.

Charles, Florence and Emma and our favorite driver Steven also joined in the welcome.

It was a warm humid evening and as we approached the hotel we experienced torrential rain. Us Portlanders felt right at home.

Our long 20 plus hours of flight time left us exhausted and yearning for at least 4 or 5 hours of sleep before our next day was to begin.

Our intimate team of 10 started the day by visiting the Esther Home and sorting out the bags. After counting the jump ropes we found ourselves a few short and decided to wait until our luggage arrived before we handed them out; our goal is to give each and every child (720 total) a jump rope. We didn’t want to chance not having enough so we moved forward to another scheduled activity. We traveled to the New Life Academy in two team vans. Of course, the life on the road side was new to some and they thoroughly enjoyed watching the children carry babies on their backs, jerry cans filled with water on their heads and prisoners working in the fields. We did recognize that the prisoners are no longer clothed in the customary hot pink prison uniforms but now wore a brightly colored orange one.

We arrived at the academy without incident and were warmly greeted by groups of students. Each of the team members were surrounded by their own group of children - wide eyed and curious. Taylor, who is graduating at the end of May, found herself most popular among the girls students. They were in admiration of her and there were several students who recognized her from Esther’s photo album. She was already a star before she made her way to Rwanda. At one point there were several little hands reaching up and stroking Taylor’s beautiful blonde ponytail.

Most of the students were having their lunch in the new dining hall. They now have tables and chairs and eating utensils. It was fascinating to watch them maneuver their forks around their plates – something so foreign to them.

After lunch all the students from the school around 700 of them, and another team (Ten Talents Vancouver Washington) that was visiting the academy too and our team, gathered in the dining hall. We introduced ourselves to a sea of uniformed students, all with big eyes and bright smiles.

We then proceeded to share with them the You-Are-Beautiful program; where we extended to them the simple but powerful message “You Are Beautiful” – giving each of them a moment of self awareness that they are beautiful within their hearts, their minds and their spirits. Then one by one both of the teams gathered together and pinned a button on each and every child whispering in sweet voices that they were beautiful – the smiles, the warmth and their energy was just over the top.

After all the children were back in their seats a selected group of students performed the traditional dance for us. They were dressed in their traditional garb and their movements were flowing and beautifully orchestrated. The You-Are-Beautiful banner hung behind them and it seemed so appropriate. A small group of drummers and singers accompanied their performance. Without losing a step the young girls made their way through the crowd and gathered up some of the team members and started dancing with them. A few hesitated. but eventually they made their way up to the stage and moved and grooved. Ron hid behind his camera and Bunny escaped to outside to get a little air.

The next performance was by a group of young boys and they too performed a traditional dance. Their movements were rigid and pronounced, bells were strapped to their ankles and the drums took on an even louder beat. The whole performance was fantastic and left all of us feeling invigorated.

Before making our visits to the families in the village we toured the orphanages and we were so impressed by their feeling of a “home” versus the dorm type orphanages.

We stopped at the market to buy food supplies for our visits. Dan, Ron Archer and Fran started handing out candy – the kids came out of nowhere, first a few and then more and more and more. Nicole blew up some balloons and before we knew it a couple of dozen little hands were reaching for them. As we drove off we notice the colorful balloons enhancing the landscape and the kids were running besides the vans waving and laughing.

Bunny and Ron, our resident photographers, kept busy behind the cameras. Fran, Ron Archer and Dan threw out Frisbees, paper airplanes, candy and were blowing up balloons. They were literally mobbed. The children squealed with excitement and their laughter and enthusiasm was exhilarating. Those of us who didn’t want to experience the mob scene stood by and watched in awe.

Even after driving away we couldn’t help ourselves and passed out balloons along the way through the van windows.

It was a great first day in Rwanda. The country remains as beautiful as ever, the people have welcomed us with open arms and we all were immersed in the surreal emotions of the day.

To our families and friends we thank you once again for your support and for sharing this journey with us.

In Peace We Trust!

Meet The Team

2008-05-14T16:35:00.000-07:00

Cathy and her walking buddies

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Bunny and the gang.

Ron Archer and Ron Pepos

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Nicole - she received the most hugs.

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Opa (Ron) and Glacier

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Taylor with her new friends.

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Fran and her sweet new friend,

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Dan - we tried talking him into a singing performance. No Luck!

Women For Women International

2007-11-20T11:49:00.001-08:00

This morning 14 of us piled into one van – a bit cozy but the energy was upbeat and we were ready to go meet the group of women sponsored by the Women for Women program. After a two hour drive we arrived at their training center.

One by one we got out of the van and were greeted by the women. They were excited about our visit and welcomed us warmly. Peace, our guide from WFW, who traveled with us today, introduced us. I was so proud to have the Esther Home girls, who were wearing their light yellow Esther Home t-shirts, and my sweet daughter with me. My heart was full!

My sponsor sister stepped out from the hut and directly into my arms. It was good to see her once again. Unlike our last visit she wasn’t as shy and showed such eagerness in greeting me.

Because the sun was so intense they lead us into a large hut that they use for training. Today was banking day where a small amount of funds were being distributed to the women. There were three groups there training - a total of 80 women. I introduced the Esther Girls and explained the program - the women clapped and whispered among themselves. Then I introduced Nicole – that brought them to their feet, their smiles widened and they muttered something in their language. They loved the fact that we were mother and daughter.

Wearing The Button

2007-11-20T11:42:00.000-08:00

Yvonne, the Esther Home Leader, moved forward and began taking about the simple message of “You Are Beautiful” and how wearing the buttons we had brought them would spread this simple but powerful message through out the village. She went on to tell them that they were all beautiful women with a beautiful heart. We had brought with us enough buttons to give the 80 women. We all began mingling among them pinning them to their dresses. It was an amazing experience – each woman was so thrilled to be wearing the button.

Together In Song & Dance

2007-11-20T11:35:00.000-08:00

The women then sang and danced for us. Following their performance, Evas, another Esther girl, lead the Esther girls in song while Claire and Patience also entertained them with the traditional dance. The women were so thrilled and they too joined in clapping and singing with them.

Let's Dance

2007-11-20T11:30:00.000-08:00

We then moved onto the other two groups. Our last visit was to the group outside who were sitting in the shade under a large tree. They immediately sang and danced for us. This group was even more energized and when the Esther Home girls began to sing and dance the women sang and danced right along with them. At one point Evas and Claire gathered Nicole and I together and started dancing with us, other Esther Home girls followed and before we knew it we were dancing with the women in the group. It went on and on. It was electrifying.

It was then time to leave these beautiful women. They all extended their good wishes to us and after many hugs we were on our way.

We stopped at my “sister” Claudine’s home as she had a gift for me. She had made me a large Inkangara basket and gifted us a box of fruit. Her parents were most welcoming and were once again overjoyed at our visit.

As we drove away our hearts were full and it again validated the great work that Women For Women International is doing.

During our visit to Rwanda we have met several other women that had been in the program and were profoundly impacted by their experience and training by the WFW organization.

I believe that the Esther Home girls too were inspired by the program and the impact it is having on the people of their country.

You Are Beautiful

2007-11-20T10:43:00.000-08:00

Yes indeed … To the women we visited today and to the Esther Home girls – You Are Beautiful!

The Bartels & Their Gift From the Heart

2007-11-20T10:41:00.000-08:00

The rain made for extremely muddy roads today and we had a hard time maneuvering the van into the village to make our visit to two of the sponsor child’s homes. It is a school holiday so many of the children were outside playing in the rain and running after the van yelling “muzungu muzungu”. The smiles on their faces were never ending.

Once we arrived at Ismail’s home – Nicole gathered up the small gift that she had brought for him. Immediately his little sisters took hold of Nicole’s hand and lead us to their home. The mud was so slick and I had such a hard time walking – after a few steps I had an inch of thick clay-like mud on my shoes making it difficult to move forward.

When we arrived we were so surprised at the appearance of their hut – it looked as if it was newly constructed. The smiles on their faces were so wide.

During our trip to Rwanda in September with Dan and Bunny we visited Ismail’s family. The condition of their home was in great need of repair – the roof had large holes in it, thus was in no condition to keep the rain out. Since the rainy season was on its way and the need for a new roof was so apparent, our wonderful friends, Dan and Bunny generously gave funds to Pastor Emma to provide this family home with a new roof.

When Africa New Life delivered the sheets of metal to them they were surprised and overwhelmed with joy and appreciation. They also had enough funds to repaint and make the needed repairs.

To see their home now was so incredible – to know that our two very special friends - Dan & Bunny had gifted this to them was even more overwhelming.

This was truly a gift from the heart!

Feeding The Refugees

2007-11-15T11:38:00.001-08:00

We woke up to heavy rain – we were a bit nervous that our trip to the Kageyo Refugee Camp would be cancelled and the roads would be un-drivable. We packed our rain coats and prepared ourselves for a muddy and rainy 3 hour drive. We rented another van to accommodate all of us – Robert, Hilary, our attorney, Pastor Emma and the Esther Home girls.

45 minutes into the drive we arrived at Kayonza and the rain subsided. We were all thankful. We met with the Mayor of the district – he was most welcoming and so appreciative of our mission to feed the refugees. The last time the refugees were feed was three months ago and there is no feeding scheduled for the next few months as the rains makes the transporting of the food impossible. The Kayonza district is no longer able to sponsor the feeding programs so they rely mainly on private donors. The camp is progressing and has been planting some corn to subsidize their food supply. The last time that Ron and I traveled to the camp to pick up Maria, an Esther Home girl, there were no signs of agricultural there.

On our trip to Rwanda in September we were touched by the people of the camp and recognized the need and the impact of the Refuge feeding program. Our family has been very blessed and collectively we wanted to participate in this program. The multiple bags of corn meal and beans feed 1,780 refugees. Distribution of the food is given to each member of the family. As the first refugee approached the feeding line I scooped out five cups of corn meal into their large flour sack. I was taken back at the small amount given to each of them – and then to realize that this will need to last them until after the first of the year – it was inconceivable.

Moving Forward

2007-11-15T11:32:00.000-08:00

Because of the road conditions everyone was loaded into one van and the Mayor supplied us with a four wheel drive truck in case we couldn’t reach the camp with the Vans. We traveled some distance before we reached the dirt roads where we then traveled another hour or more. We finally caught up with the Dump Truck loaded with the food – the roads were slippery and we moved forward with great caution. About three miles from the camp the Food Truck got stuck – we parked the van and the group of men borrowed the hoes from the villagers and worked at getting the truck moving again. The girls were loaded in the back of the four wheel drive truck and we moved closer to the camp. The camp is located on a flood plain so alternative roads were washed away and the refugees had to travel in ankle deep water to reach the feeding site.

Kageyo Refugee Camp

2007-11-15T11:24:00.000-08:00

While they were unloading the bags of food the Esther Girls, Nicole, Robert and I made our way to the camp - walking cautiously through muddy roads. Nicole fell into a mud hole and I managed to get my shoes filled with mud. The sun was so intense at that time that Nicole’s clothes dried in no time. After a two mile walk under the scorching sun we arrived at the camp. We were warmly greeted by everyone – they were all so happy to once again see Maria.

Maria’s brother was so overwhelmed to see all of us and to once again hold his sister in his arms. It was an experience that will be embedded in my heart forever. As orphans and refugees from Tananzia, they have a bond like no other I’ve seen. The Esther girls made their selves at home in the small bedroom hut escaping the afternoon sun. Maria’s smile was wide and never ending. It filled my heart to have her Esther sisters experience this with her. After our introduction to the CARE International camp staff we made our way back to the feeding area.

Our gift to Maria

2007-11-15T11:12:00.000-08:00

Refugees were slowly making their way through the flood plain to the feeding area. To get out from under the sun they crowded together under a nearby isolated tree. The Esther girls mingled among them – at one point Claire started weaving a basket.

Emma and the camp director spoke to the refugees and introduced us. They clapped in appreciation and they were so proud to have one of their daughters of the camp (Maria) have this opportunity. Once again I felt the tears sting my eyes and I was deeply moved.

We arrived back in Kigali after dark, exhausted, hungry and our hearts were full. It is hard for one to imagine the greatness of it all and the powerful impact that this act of giving has. We are truly blessed to have had this opportunity to share this great day with the Esther girls and our friends.

This day was our gift to our new daughter Maria and her extend family at the refugee camp. Once again we are reminded and appreciative of all we have been blessed with.

Family ... the core of life

2007-11-15T07:50:00.000-08:00

The phone rang – it was our wake up call – I laid there for a few minutes not sure that I wanted this day to start – knowing that we were headed to Butare with Esther to see her family. Another emotional day to endure and a long 2.5 hour drive.

Once we arrived in Butare we went in search for Esther’s brother at the orphanage only to find out that he was spending the weekend with their father. He sees him often on the weekends traveling 20 miles on foot. We once again made our way deep into the village on the deeply rutted roads. You could see the excitement in Esther’s eyes and in her wide smile .

We arrived and found the brother. The father and sister were attending the village church. The neighbor man immediately got on his bicycle and went to retrieve him. When the father arrived he was wearing his Sunday best – the clothes that Ron and I had bought him while in prison. He was so excited to see all of us and couldn’t hug Esther enough. The father now has his own hut that is next door to the god father he was staying with upon his release from prison. It was a small hut – he rents it for 1,000 francs per month which is equivalent to $2 U.S. dollars. He was proud to have a place to call home. He was so surprised at our visit and was deeply touched to see Nicole. He asked for Ron several times through out our visit and asked that we greet him – he truly has a special connection to him.

Other neighboring villagers gathered around – kids were excited to see the “muzungus”. I took photos while Nicole talked with Esther’s family. It was such a heartfelt moment. Our little Esther’s smile diminished and she got so sad as she listened to the conversation. Her father continued to remind her to keep her faith and pray for what ever God has planned for her. The brother and sister stood close to her and hugged her continuously. As I witnessed this I felt an overwhelming presence of God and realized that his plan was to work through us to reunite this family after thirteen years of abandonment. I can not find the words to describe this.

Nicole gave Esther, her sister and her brother small bracelets – each matching – with the Kinyarwanda word “family” engraved on each and told them to always believe in family and love one another. Nicole also told them to let these bracelets remind each other of their love and their commitment to one other. My heart was swelling.

Robert gathered the village kids together, and with Esther in the middle of them, they all started singing and clapping – once again our hearts were lifted.

It wasn’t long afterwards that a dark cloud hovered overhead and we hurriedly said our goodbyes. We needed to move on so we wouldn’t get caught in the downpour. It doesn’t take long for the rains to turn the roads into mud thus making them un-drivable.

The goodbyes were so heartbreaking and little Esther retreated into herself. After we reached the city and stopped for a few snacks she once again regained her smile and cuddled closely to her mummy Nicole. It was another amazing and emotional day. I must admit that this trip to Butare was a bit more relaxed and not as stressful as the many trips prior.

Our journey home was filled with roadside travelers returning from the Isoko (markets). I continue to be amazed at how they manage to transport their goods and the distance in which they walk to reach their destination.

I want to send love to all of you – I wish I could pack you all up and bring you here to share these experiences. Each time I am here I continue to be touched and confident of how we are all making such a difference in their world.

To those of you who sent us your good wishes and comments on the blog – we thank you - we look forward to them.

Happy Birthday To You!

2007-11-15T05:15:00.000-08:00

Happy Birthday to you,

Happy Birthday dear Ron and Beatrice

Happy Birthday to you!

Today is the day that the angels did sing - two special people were born on this very day thirty four years apart. Beatrice, one of the Esther Home girls and Ron share this birthday.

All the girls sang the birthday song to Beatrice in English and then in their native language sang it to Ron - Happy Birthday Dear Ronnie - happy birthday to you!

We had just finished with song and dance with the village women with Women to Women International. As the girls were singing happy birthday as the women looked on in awe and some started clapping with the beat and moving in dance.

Ron - we have you in our hearts and we wish you a wonderful day - even though there are many miles separating us on this special day - we celebrate you and you are with us in spirit!

Happy Birthday To You! We love you!

Enjoy your day!

With love Joyce - Nicole and all your Esther Home Girls!

Greetings!

2007-11-14T07:22:00.001-08:00

Hello to my family and friends - below you will find a few days of activities - blogging has been difficult but we are hopeful to catch up in the next few days. Enjoy!

Esther Home Grand Opening

2007-11-14T07:10:00.001-08:00

Mothers, Aunts, Brothers, Uncles, Sisters -they all arrived at the Esther Home with great anticipation and pride in their hearts.

Today was the Grand Opening of the Esther Home – a day to share the home and the Esther Home girls with family members.

We filled the large living and dinning areas with folding chairs to accommodate the guests. The girls have only occupied the house for two weeks; we are still in the process of furnishing it.

Charles and Florence, co founders of Africa New Life, along with several staff members greeted the guests as they arrived. The girls were so proud to share their new home with their relatives.

After introductions from the families and the ANLM staff; Florence, Charles, Fred and Emma acknowledged the presence of each guest and then each of them provided an insight to the Esther Home program, their expectations and their thankfulness for the opportunities that has been given to each of the girls.

The girls were so proud and so thankful. I too had the opportunity to share with the guests my thoughts and vision for the program; our confidence in the partnership with Africa New Life and our faith in the Esther Home girls. Nicole introduced Esther and explained the meaning behind the naming of the Esther Home. I must say that the Esther Home girls have taken Esther into their hearts and have showered her with love and affection – they will be great role models for her.

When Charles presented himself to the guests; it was then that I felt tears sting my eyes – he was so gracious in speaking of the partnership with the founding donors, the community of sponsors in America and the impact that this program will have on his country and the girls. It was heartfelt and charismatic.

Several guests addressed us with their gratefulness and requested that each of the Esther Home girls take this opportunity seriously and guard it closely. They encouraged them to work hard in pursuing their dreams, performing well in school and becoming role models for those who will follow in their foot steps. I was touched by their appreciation and kind words.

As the opening ended – our hearts were full – great energy prevailed - a dream had come alive.

Surprise Surprise ...

2007-11-14T07:03:00.000-08:00

Before we got into the activities of the day we made our way back to the Minister of Gender’s office. The purpose of this visit was to bring Khadija a gift to thank her for all her efforts in helping us with the adoption process. She welcomed us with open arms. One could sense her disappointment about the process and she encouraged us not to give us. We enjoyed our visit and left her with big hugs and words of appreciation. We then, with a great attitude and strong confidence, directed ourselves to the office of the Minister. We had a letter of request to retrieve our original documents. It was only a few minutes after we entered the reception office that the Minister came in – she was stunned to see us and surprised at my return visit and to see that Nicole was there. One could see how uneasy she was at our presence. I introduced Nicole to her – told her that we received her response letter and that we acknowledged her decision but we were saddened and did not understand it. I then went on in conversation about how we were aware of a child just being adopted earlier that week where she made an exception. The stunned look in her eyes was so visible – she quickly responded in saying that she will contact us and get our number from Khadija. We said goodbye and made our way to the Van with a little hope in our hearts but a realization that she was just being political.

We now understand that in Rwanda it is who you know and how persistent you are. So with that in mind we have taken it to the top and today visited the Prime Minister’s office to seek an appointment. We met with his director and requested an appointment – he took our information and told us that he would be in touch. We have not yet been granted an audience with the Prime Minister and his schedule may not be able to accommodate us prior to our departure but we are confident that our persistency is worth this effort.

Once again – these two American women have made their presence known here within Rwandan Ministry.

Hugs Hugs and more Hugs ...

2007-11-14T06:57:00.000-08:00

Our hour journey to Kayonza was with great laughter and conversation. Robert, our sponsor son, who will be attending the university in January, Yvonne, an Esther Home girl, and two ANLM staff members, accompanied us. We pulled out bags of Beef Jerky that we had brought from the States and the bags were emptied in a matter of a few minutes.

Once we arrived at the New Life Academy (and even in the midst of the all of the laughter and conversation) I could feel the anxiousness of Nicole - her eyes were wide and in search for Esther. We made our way to the parking area by the large cafeteria and I could see Esther coming across the property in search for us. She ran into Nicole’s arms and tears filled both of their eyes – everyone stood there with such emotion in their hearts and tears in their eyes. The 80 children from the orphanages quickly gathered around us as they all were anxiously waiting for Nicole’s visit with Esther. After we composed ourselves we extended hugs to each of the children – one by one. We then made our way to Esther’s orphanage where we visited with the children. They sang for us in their beautiful voices and then Esther, Barbara and Sara danced the traditional dance. It was so sweet and enduring. Again our eyes filled with tears.

Esther took Nicole to her bedroom that she shares with five other girls. Under each bed was a backpack stuffed with their clothes and private possessions – Esther’s photo album and letters from us and other special treasurers were locked in her friend’s backpack. Together, with a group of girls and with such pride, Esther went through the photos one by one. The girls were all very aware of who was who in our family and made comments about each of them. They said that Opa (Ron) was someone who is in films (basically they thought he was a movie star). Then they said that when they have a chance to watch films (movies) they would often tell Esther that maybe she will see Opa in the film. Nicole and I had to chuckle at their characterization of Ron.

Party Time

2007-11-14T06:54:00.000-08:00

It wasn’t long afterwards when we made our way outside to start the activities with the children. This day was extremely warm and the sun was more intense than it had been in the past two days. It brought back memories of our first mission trip here with Glacier. All the children were asking for her. They constantly were touching my long hair and posing for photos. Then we brought out the dozen jump ropes – some long some short. The kids grabbed them and start jumping and singing – it was the most exhilarating sight. - 80 children singing and jumping.. Nicole taught them the double dutch using two long jump ropes – they were a bit hesitant about it at first and one by one they tried and eventually a few managed to do it. Pastor Emma even tried his skills and the kids were so excited to see him jumping with them – he truly is loved by each and every one of them. Of course Nicole and the rest of the team jumped while I stood by watching each of the groups perform. At one point we brought out the Twister Game and the Where’s Wado books – the kids loved that.

Lunch Is Served

2007-11-14T06:46:00.000-08:00

Then it was time for lunch – after gathering up the jump ropes we all made our way into the large dining hall. Today we were sponsoring a lunch for them with meat – meat being the key entree – a food that they rarely ever get. They lined up and one by one received the overflowing plates of rice, matoke, flat bread, meat and a banana. Some even went back for seconds – we were just in awe of how much they could eat. After the main meal – Robert got out the key board and started the music - they all got up and danced. Our little Esther truly had the rhythm and moved and grooved like no other. The cake was brought in – it was all decorated as if it was meant for a wedding. Cake and pop was served to each of the kids – it truly lent itself to a party atmosphere. Robert then continued to play, and together with Yvonne, they sang for us. Then Esther, Sara, Barbara and another boy from the choir sang for us. This is when my emotions took over – Esther was up there singing with such passion – at times she would close her eyes as if she was elsewhere. I could sense that Nicole was feeling the same.

As we ended the party each of the children thanked us and said their good byes – more one on one hugs. Esther and Barbara gathered up their back packs and we all got in the Van and headed back to the city. Nicole and Esther spent their 45 minute drive cuddling and talking – a scene that will be embedded in my heart forever. We dropped the girls off at Barbara’s grandmothers and headed back to the hotel.

The sun, the emotions and the activities with the children not only filled us up but left us a bit lifeless. It didn’t take long before we were fast asleep.

To be with the children, to fill their hearts with love and to play with them was once again so rewarding. Their big eyes, wide smiles and heartfelt love just consumed us. It was a great day.

Family Visits

2007-11-11T09:46:00.000-08:00

An early morning start got us up and moving – our late night talks continue to leave us a bit on the groggy side as we start our days. We were greeted by Florence and three of the Esther Home girls. Today was our day of traveling to visit Esther Home families - a 2 ½ hour drive to the Mutra providence of Rwanda.

Our first visit was to the small village of Kibondo where Justin’s family lives. This part of the country not only supports agriculture crops but long horned cattle were found roaming the area. As we went deeper into the village we noticed that many of the people had not seen white people before – some were scared while others chased behind us – yelling “muzungo muzungo” (white people). We arrived at Justin’s home and were greeted so warmly by her parents and family. They live in a small three room hut with no furniture. We noticed that the main floor area was covered with new straw mats and there were two wooden chairs - which lead us to think that they had prepared for our visit. One by one more extended family members arrived. Neighbor children were crowded in the doorway staring in. Justin was excited to see her family as it had been several months since she had seen them. At one point, in an area of about 6’by 10’ there were about two dozen family members crowded together sitting on the floor visiting. The father, who was injured in the Ugandan war, and Justin’s mother, told us their stories and repeatedly expressed their gratitude in regards to Justin’s opportunity for continued education. Her mother’s name was Joyce and she was so excite that we shared the same name – many times she would randomly wave her hands in the air and in her native language express her appreciation and excitement. Justin is the first of her family to be educated through high school and now college.

Justin is the fourth born, first girl and the oldest living child of the family. There were 10 children in the family. Five of her brothers died – one was part of the RPF and was killed in the war the others died of disease. After the loss of her five brothers her younger sister died leaving only four children. At present the parents are raising two other small children from an uncle who recently died.

They wanted to prepare lunch for us, as we gracefully declined the offer; they served us a large bowl of bananas. Justin’s brother who is 16 years old is not able to go to school as he has no sponsor and the school in the village does not provide education pass primary class. It was sad to see many young boys just sitting outside their homes under the intense sun doing nothing.

We left with great joy in our hearts and it truly validated our scholarship project. Neighbors gathered as we were leaving – as I lifted my camera up to take photos of the children they would scatter - many of them had never seen a camera before. We said our goodbyes and then we were back on the rutted roads to the small village of Kabarore.

Claire's Home

2007-11-11T09:43:00.000-08:00

We arrived at Claire’s home and were greeted by her mother, two sisters and one small brother. The father, who had been a school teacher in the village, has been hospitalized since June with diabetes. Claire comes from a family of ten children – three of which were taken in after her uncle’s death. Claire has lived with her family off and on during her childhood – with so many children Claire stayed with her Aunt in Kigali in order to go to school. Claire was sponsored off and on during her education and when she entered her last year of high school she had no sponsorship available so she went to work for the Serena hotel earning 370 francs per hour (70 cents US) - she worked long hours and would study late into the evening. Claire is a hard worker with a lot of drive.

Claire heard about the Esther Home scholarship while she was riding in a taxi (a taxi here is a small mini van with passengers packed in it like sardines). Claire overheard a conversation about the scholarship and then went in search for Africa New Life and applied. After she was accepted she started volunteering at the Dream Center each day working with the street children and other sponsor children. She has great enthusiasm, strong determination and drive - she will be a great asset to the Esther Home.

After we were served warm milk and had a long conversation we left Claire’s family home.

Florence and Mom

2007-11-11T09:40:00.000-08:00

We settled ourselves in our seats preparing for our long ride (another 53 miles) to Reehem’s family home. Before we reached Reehems’ home we stopped at Florence’s mother for refreshments. After we were greeted, she served us a bowl of dumpling shaped cornbread (Amadazis) and pop. After our stomachs were filled and before we said our goodbyes we said prayer – Florence’s father had just passed away a few weeks prior (after a long cancer illness) – thus our prayers were with deep emotions.

Reehem's Home

2007-11-11T09:25:00.000-08:00

We continued our travels and arrived at Reehem’s home. Her mother was just returning from the Gacaca – which is held in the villages every Tuesday – it is mandatory that each member of the village attend and are fined if they do not do so. The Gacaca is where the prisoners come in front of the community and proclaim their innocence; if any community members witnessed the prisoner’s participation in the genocide they are not released. We passed truck loads of prisons clothed in their pink uniforms being transferred back to the prison. It is said that very few are released as a result of the Gacaca. Reehem’s two brothers were killed during the genocide. Three older brothers died of aides and other diseases. She currently has two older sisters. Reehem’s mother was extremely appreciative for Reehem’s opportunity. Reehem is the oldest of Esther Home girls because she missed several years of schooling for lack of sponsorships and family deaths. Reehem, whose smile and personality is so warm and loving, was so overjoyed to see her mother and have us visit her home.

Reehem was our interpreter when we did our mission in 2006. She has great personality and character.

During each visit we shared photos of the Esther Home and the Esther Home girls – each looked on with such wonder and interest.

Our mother-daughter presence took each family by surprise - we would catch them staring at us with such curiosity.

It was a long day; we arrived back at the hotel exhausted but with our hearts full. Each day we find it hard to blog – our days are full and there is so much to share but we enjoy sharing our experiences with all of you so hopefully we can be more consistent with our posts.

Once again we thank you all for journeying with us.