Dan and Ron made their way to the high lands of Rwanda to visit the gorillas – where there are a total of only 221 gorillas here in the country. Rwanda remains at the forefront of international efforts to save the mountain gorilla.
Saturday, September 29, 2007
Gorilla Trekking
Friday, September 28, 2007
Lake KiVu
Our travels to Lake Kivu continued to expose the life of the country. The beauty was overwhelming – the tiered landscape held us captive mile after mile. The roadside was heavily traveled with people carrying heavy loads of vegetables, jerry cans filled with water, goats, and garden hoes. Women carried brightly colored umbrellas shading their babies from the intense sun. The roads curved through the country as the elevation got steeper. The volcano peaked through the sky and the lush landscaped provided an ever so beautiful sight.
Rows of workers were in the fields hoeing getting ready for planting season. They methodically moved their hoes tiling up the rich soil – men and the women with their babies tied on their back, worked side by side. We came upon a large plot of land that was being worked by several men. Once again, with camera in hand, Ron and Bunny hiked up the steep embankment to photograph the scene. After conversing with the field manager they were informed that these men were prisoners of the genocide that was paying restitution for their crimes. They were not clothed in the customary pink uniforms - they had been previously released from prison, been forgiven and were on a work program for three months; with a follow up of formal training and mentorship. Many of them gathered around Ron and Bunny shaking hands and greeting them in Kinyarwanda. Dan and I stood along the roadside observing the whole scene in awe.
Some miles later we detoured off the main road towards a Rwanda Tea Factory - upon our arrival we were disappointed to find that there was no one available to give us permission to visit the factory. Returning to the main road we saw many workers in the tea fields and stopped for another photographic shoot. Children gathered around the vehicle and Dan “the Candy Man” distributed sweets. They just kept on coming out of no where – smiles on their faces and their little hands reaching for Dan. At one point we saw Ron lying in the field taking photos conversing with the workers – somehow he manages to get right in the midst of it all.
We noticed a small gathering of people and numerous goats – what seemed to be like a market of some sort. As we continued down the road we noticed several roadside travelers with three to four goats on leases walking towards their villages. It was quite the scene.
Of course before we arrived at our destination we stopped at a local craft market where Ron, Dan and Bunny purchased a few items. Children gathered outside looking on with curiosity and excitement – one feels like a rock star amongst all the onlookers.
We arrived at Lake KiVu late afternoon – the weather here is on the mild side with a slight breeze – the skies clear – unlike the last time we were here in January when the lake was fogged over. Here I sit wondering how this beautiful country endured such immense turmoil in 1994. Even though there is a great abundance of agriculture in this part of the country there are still vivid signs of poverty.
As our heads hit the pillow and we looked out into the night sky, a full moon appeared bigger than I’ve ever seen. Once again, I closed my eyes drifting into the colorful scenes of the day.
Rows of workers were in the fields hoeing getting ready for planting season. They methodically moved their hoes tiling up the rich soil – men and the women with their babies tied on their back, worked side by side. We came upon a large plot of land that was being worked by several men. Once again, with camera in hand, Ron and Bunny hiked up the steep embankment to photograph the scene. After conversing with the field manager they were informed that these men were prisoners of the genocide that was paying restitution for their crimes. They were not clothed in the customary pink uniforms - they had been previously released from prison, been forgiven and were on a work program for three months; with a follow up of formal training and mentorship. Many of them gathered around Ron and Bunny shaking hands and greeting them in Kinyarwanda. Dan and I stood along the roadside observing the whole scene in awe.
Some miles later we detoured off the main road towards a Rwanda Tea Factory - upon our arrival we were disappointed to find that there was no one available to give us permission to visit the factory. Returning to the main road we saw many workers in the tea fields and stopped for another photographic shoot. Children gathered around the vehicle and Dan “the Candy Man” distributed sweets. They just kept on coming out of no where – smiles on their faces and their little hands reaching for Dan. At one point we saw Ron lying in the field taking photos conversing with the workers – somehow he manages to get right in the midst of it all.
We noticed a small gathering of people and numerous goats – what seemed to be like a market of some sort. As we continued down the road we noticed several roadside travelers with three to four goats on leases walking towards their villages. It was quite the scene.
Of course before we arrived at our destination we stopped at a local craft market where Ron, Dan and Bunny purchased a few items. Children gathered outside looking on with curiosity and excitement – one feels like a rock star amongst all the onlookers.
We arrived at Lake KiVu late afternoon – the weather here is on the mild side with a slight breeze – the skies clear – unlike the last time we were here in January when the lake was fogged over. Here I sit wondering how this beautiful country endured such immense turmoil in 1994. Even though there is a great abundance of agriculture in this part of the country there are still vivid signs of poverty.
As our heads hit the pillow and we looked out into the night sky, a full moon appeared bigger than I’ve ever seen. Once again, I closed my eyes drifting into the colorful scenes of the day.
Thursday, September 27, 2007
Esther Home Family Visit
Today was fully engaged with Esther Home family visits. We indulged ourselves with a later start this morning. Our first visit was with Claire. Claire and her sister live with their Aunt – their parents live in Kayonza and are very economically deprived. Her aunt’s rented home consisted of two small rooms where seven people live. The rent is 40,000 francs which translates to about 80 US dollars – an expense that is overwhelming for them. Claire’s aunt is widowed – her husband was a solider and was killed three years ago leaving her with four children. The aunt sells clothing that she gets from Uganda in a small shopping mall in a space of about 3.5 feet. With this small business she barely manages to provide for her family. She was very thankful for Claire’s opportunity to be part of the Esther Home program. Claire volunteers at the Dream Center every day working with the children – she is bright and full of life. We shared with her sister and her aunt photos of the Esther Home and the profile of the other Esther Home girls. Bunny left behind bags of trail mix and beef jerky. It was truly heartwarming to visit with Claire and her family.
Our second visit took us to Esther’s home (another Esther Home girl) – where we were greeted by her large family. Esther is one of seven children. She lives with both of her parents, grandmother and an uncle – a total of 12 live in a four room home. Esther’s parents are from the Congo; her father was educated in Kenya. Esther’s father started a church in Rwanda and there was a violent uprising that put him in prison for a short period of time – he is still being pursued by the courts – he shared in detail the long political story about his situation. Esther’s grandmother, 74 years old, was so very excited to meet Bunny who was her age. The grandfather was killed by lightening a few years ago. At the end of our visit Esther sang for us – she has such a beautiful voice and we were all captivated by her performance.
After lunch we visited Patience, along with her mother and two sisters. Patience’s mother was very welcoming and forth coming with her story. Her first husband was with the RPF – he was a soldier that was killed during the genocide. With him she had two daughters - Patience and her sister, who is high school age. Patience was five years old at the time her father was killed. Patience’s mother, after the loss of her husband, found a baby that was seven days old left on the street. She didn’t have the means to care for this child, but took her in anyway. The baby was hospitalized during this time which left the other two children to care for themselves. Once the baby was released Patience’s mother became ill with typhoid and this put a tremendous strain on the family. Patience’s mother was focused on the girls going to school – the government paid ½ the school fees and she worked hard to cover the other half. After a year she met a French couple that adopted the abandon baby and later she married another man and had more children. Her new husband did not want to be responsible for her previous two daughters so they had to stay with other family members. Each day the girls walk 3 to 4 miles to school, come to see their mother before the step father comes home, then again they walk an additional 3 miles to spend the night at their relatives. The girls are not welcomed in the home. Patience’s mother, with tears in her eyes, expressed how very blessed she felt that her daughter was afforded the opportunity of the Esther Home program. The visit was quickly concluded; I suspected that the step father was due to arrive home at any time. You could feel her nervousness and her anxiousness – her greatest challenge is not being able to have her daughters live with her. She was so very appreciative.
Next visit was with Beatrice. Beatrice’s mother has passed away and her father resides in Uganda. She has three brothers and five sisters. Beatrice lives with her cousin, husband and three children. Beatrice has a contagious smile and is so very personable. She will lend to the Esther Home her great personality and uplifted spirits. When we went to visit with her and her family the rain was in full force – as we walked up the muddy path – slipping and sliding – they commented that our visit in the rain was a sign of love. Beatrice has the same name as my mother and has the same birth date as Ron – she holds a special connection with us.
At each home we shared our personal stories, introduced Cathy & Steve Hackett (the other project sponsors) - showed each family photos of the Esther Home, and left small bags of goodies and ended each visit with family photos. Each and every family was so appreciative.
As we met with each girl and each family we shared with them that it is not only the Pepos and Hackett families that are sponsoring this program but that we have a large wonderful community in the United States that are supporting, both spiritually and financially, the Esther Home program.
To our families, our friends and our associates, we again thank you for your continued support and love. You have truly made a difference in many lives here in Rwanda. We carry your spirit and support with us each day as we journey through this beautiful country with these beautiful people.
We are now heading up to the northwest providence of the country to Lake Kivu – where Ron and Dan will go Gorilla trekking and Bunny and I will indulge ourselves in a little relaxation.
Our second visit took us to Esther’s home (another Esther Home girl) – where we were greeted by her large family. Esther is one of seven children. She lives with both of her parents, grandmother and an uncle – a total of 12 live in a four room home. Esther’s parents are from the Congo; her father was educated in Kenya. Esther’s father started a church in Rwanda and there was a violent uprising that put him in prison for a short period of time – he is still being pursued by the courts – he shared in detail the long political story about his situation. Esther’s grandmother, 74 years old, was so very excited to meet Bunny who was her age. The grandfather was killed by lightening a few years ago. At the end of our visit Esther sang for us – she has such a beautiful voice and we were all captivated by her performance.
After lunch we visited Patience, along with her mother and two sisters. Patience’s mother was very welcoming and forth coming with her story. Her first husband was with the RPF – he was a soldier that was killed during the genocide. With him she had two daughters - Patience and her sister, who is high school age. Patience was five years old at the time her father was killed. Patience’s mother, after the loss of her husband, found a baby that was seven days old left on the street. She didn’t have the means to care for this child, but took her in anyway. The baby was hospitalized during this time which left the other two children to care for themselves. Once the baby was released Patience’s mother became ill with typhoid and this put a tremendous strain on the family. Patience’s mother was focused on the girls going to school – the government paid ½ the school fees and she worked hard to cover the other half. After a year she met a French couple that adopted the abandon baby and later she married another man and had more children. Her new husband did not want to be responsible for her previous two daughters so they had to stay with other family members. Each day the girls walk 3 to 4 miles to school, come to see their mother before the step father comes home, then again they walk an additional 3 miles to spend the night at their relatives. The girls are not welcomed in the home. Patience’s mother, with tears in her eyes, expressed how very blessed she felt that her daughter was afforded the opportunity of the Esther Home program. The visit was quickly concluded; I suspected that the step father was due to arrive home at any time. You could feel her nervousness and her anxiousness – her greatest challenge is not being able to have her daughters live with her. She was so very appreciative.
Next visit was with Beatrice. Beatrice’s mother has passed away and her father resides in Uganda. She has three brothers and five sisters. Beatrice lives with her cousin, husband and three children. Beatrice has a contagious smile and is so very personable. She will lend to the Esther Home her great personality and uplifted spirits. When we went to visit with her and her family the rain was in full force – as we walked up the muddy path – slipping and sliding – they commented that our visit in the rain was a sign of love. Beatrice has the same name as my mother and has the same birth date as Ron – she holds a special connection with us.
At each home we shared our personal stories, introduced Cathy & Steve Hackett (the other project sponsors) - showed each family photos of the Esther Home, and left small bags of goodies and ended each visit with family photos. Each and every family was so appreciative.
As we met with each girl and each family we shared with them that it is not only the Pepos and Hackett families that are sponsoring this program but that we have a large wonderful community in the United States that are supporting, both spiritually and financially, the Esther Home program.
To our families, our friends and our associates, we again thank you for your continued support and love. You have truly made a difference in many lives here in Rwanda. We carry your spirit and support with us each day as we journey through this beautiful country with these beautiful people.
We are now heading up to the northwest providence of the country to Lake Kivu – where Ron and Dan will go Gorilla trekking and Bunny and I will indulge ourselves in a little relaxation.
Tuesday, September 25, 2007
We are humbled....
We had an early start this morning - traveling east to Kayonza district. After two hours we arrived at the Aides Hospital sponsored by the Clinton Foundation. One of our Esther Home girls became ill last week and was transported to the hospital. The hospital was located in a remote area an hour distant from Kayonza – the mud huts were unlike the others we’ve encountered – these had thatched roofs and were round in structure.
We arriveed at the hospital where women and children lined the outside waiting areas and doctors and staff were visible everywhere. We were ushered into the area where Maria was – she and another girl was sharing a twin sized, simple framed, plastic mattress hospital bed. She had an IV drip and was extremely surprised to see us and wondered how we managed to find out that she was ill and hospitalized. Emma, our wonderful new friend, our interpreter, our guide and Africa New Life’s Operation Director, had been following up on Maria with the local Mayor and knew of her health situation. She shyly greeted us and expressed, with tears, her appreciation for her opportunity with the Esther Home program. We took her and the IV set up out into the outside corridor so that we could visit with her. Bunny took her place next to Maria and held the IV bottle while we visited. We learned that the young girl that she was sharing the bed with was HIV positive. Ron and Emma approached the doctors and made arrangements to take Maria back with us to Kigali for further treatment. Maria was diagnosed with a strand of hepatitis – they felt it wasn’t too serious but she needed further testing and bed rest. They did find out that she was born with her heart and other organs on the right side of her body – which they said was not that abnormal but wanted us to be informed for future medical treatment. Maria’s brother had been with her for the past week sleeping along side her on the concert floor. Maria is 21 and her brother Christen was 24. Both of them are refugees from Tanzania. Both are true orphans – no parents or other living relatives.
We met with the program coordinator and a doctor from Chicago – we were so impressed with the work they were doing at this hospital. Of course to see these beautiful people suffering was almost, at times, too much to absorb.
There was this small child, with a two month old baby wrapped around her, that sat with us in the outside courtyard. Ron asked one of the staff doctors about her and was told that her mother was HIV positive and being treated in the hospital. He then went into the ward where she was. Talking with her (via the doctor) he found out that she had two older boys that were living on the streets and had these two small children who were staying there on the hospital grounds while she was being treated. So Ron managed to guide her to the outside courtyard where Ron and Emma got more information about her. Again Ron opened up his heart and said that he wanted to help support her and her children. Emma took the information and visited with her for quite some time. We all stood there witnessing the incredible scenes around us. We finally received the hospital records for Maria. We all left feeling very humble and overwhelmed.
We then headed to the Refugee camp. We were again traveling on deeply rutted roads – this time we noticed that the soil was too dry for any type of agriculture - similar to the bush area in South Africa.
In this remote isolated area the refugees had built a small community of thatched roof huts. Tanzania displaced all the Rwandan refugees after destroying their homes and raping the women. Maria and her brother were among the group of refugees that came across the border and were given a small plot of land where they built their own thatched roof hut. Their plot of land was amazing - they had constructed a little living space fenced by twigs and thorny bush – little thatched circled walls were separately constructed to house their toilet and wash areas. They made a chair and placed it under a tree for their outdoor living room. They innovatively made a separate cooking and sleeping area. They had constructed the most remarkable space in the camp.
Africa New Life has a feeding program in place where they supply these refugees with food. They supply beans and flour that feeds approximately a thousand people. They fill the gap when other agencies can not fulfill the need. Again, Africa New Life impacts this region with substantial aide. We continue to marvel at the work that this organization does.
Ron, with camera in hand, wondered around the camp greeting the women and children. A short while later he motioned for us to join him. He had come upon a group of women sitting around a hut under the shade weaving baskets. We watched in awe while Emma communicated with them about buying their baskets.
After some time under the blazing sun we gathered up Maria’s belongings, said our good by to her brother Christen. We were so sad to witness this brother and sister leave one another – I can’t begin to describe our feelings about this. We told him that we will put our efforts in finding him an opportunity for better conditions.
As we drove away Maria looked out the window at her brother with deep sadness in her eyes but yet with great joy in her heart at her opportunity to be in the Esther Home Program.
Maria supported herself and her brother by working as a house maid while living in Tanzania and put both of them through school. They both graduated from high school - Maria’s dream is to be a lawyer. She comes to this program with very good English skills and strong character. Maria has endured more than most young women in our program.
There is so much to share with you about today’s journey – way too much for this blog space and my midnight blog writings. It was an experience that one will never forget and we are truly humbled by it. Once again our hearts are full and our journey is like no other.
We arriveed at the hospital where women and children lined the outside waiting areas and doctors and staff were visible everywhere. We were ushered into the area where Maria was – she and another girl was sharing a twin sized, simple framed, plastic mattress hospital bed. She had an IV drip and was extremely surprised to see us and wondered how we managed to find out that she was ill and hospitalized. Emma, our wonderful new friend, our interpreter, our guide and Africa New Life’s Operation Director, had been following up on Maria with the local Mayor and knew of her health situation. She shyly greeted us and expressed, with tears, her appreciation for her opportunity with the Esther Home program. We took her and the IV set up out into the outside corridor so that we could visit with her. Bunny took her place next to Maria and held the IV bottle while we visited. We learned that the young girl that she was sharing the bed with was HIV positive. Ron and Emma approached the doctors and made arrangements to take Maria back with us to Kigali for further treatment. Maria was diagnosed with a strand of hepatitis – they felt it wasn’t too serious but she needed further testing and bed rest. They did find out that she was born with her heart and other organs on the right side of her body – which they said was not that abnormal but wanted us to be informed for future medical treatment. Maria’s brother had been with her for the past week sleeping along side her on the concert floor. Maria is 21 and her brother Christen was 24. Both of them are refugees from Tanzania. Both are true orphans – no parents or other living relatives.
We met with the program coordinator and a doctor from Chicago – we were so impressed with the work they were doing at this hospital. Of course to see these beautiful people suffering was almost, at times, too much to absorb.
There was this small child, with a two month old baby wrapped around her, that sat with us in the outside courtyard. Ron asked one of the staff doctors about her and was told that her mother was HIV positive and being treated in the hospital. He then went into the ward where she was. Talking with her (via the doctor) he found out that she had two older boys that were living on the streets and had these two small children who were staying there on the hospital grounds while she was being treated. So Ron managed to guide her to the outside courtyard where Ron and Emma got more information about her. Again Ron opened up his heart and said that he wanted to help support her and her children. Emma took the information and visited with her for quite some time. We all stood there witnessing the incredible scenes around us. We finally received the hospital records for Maria. We all left feeling very humble and overwhelmed.
We then headed to the Refugee camp. We were again traveling on deeply rutted roads – this time we noticed that the soil was too dry for any type of agriculture - similar to the bush area in South Africa.
In this remote isolated area the refugees had built a small community of thatched roof huts. Tanzania displaced all the Rwandan refugees after destroying their homes and raping the women. Maria and her brother were among the group of refugees that came across the border and were given a small plot of land where they built their own thatched roof hut. Their plot of land was amazing - they had constructed a little living space fenced by twigs and thorny bush – little thatched circled walls were separately constructed to house their toilet and wash areas. They made a chair and placed it under a tree for their outdoor living room. They innovatively made a separate cooking and sleeping area. They had constructed the most remarkable space in the camp.
Africa New Life has a feeding program in place where they supply these refugees with food. They supply beans and flour that feeds approximately a thousand people. They fill the gap when other agencies can not fulfill the need. Again, Africa New Life impacts this region with substantial aide. We continue to marvel at the work that this organization does.
Ron, with camera in hand, wondered around the camp greeting the women and children. A short while later he motioned for us to join him. He had come upon a group of women sitting around a hut under the shade weaving baskets. We watched in awe while Emma communicated with them about buying their baskets.
After some time under the blazing sun we gathered up Maria’s belongings, said our good by to her brother Christen. We were so sad to witness this brother and sister leave one another – I can’t begin to describe our feelings about this. We told him that we will put our efforts in finding him an opportunity for better conditions.
As we drove away Maria looked out the window at her brother with deep sadness in her eyes but yet with great joy in her heart at her opportunity to be in the Esther Home Program.
Maria supported herself and her brother by working as a house maid while living in Tanzania and put both of them through school. They both graduated from high school - Maria’s dream is to be a lawyer. She comes to this program with very good English skills and strong character. Maria has endured more than most young women in our program.
There is so much to share with you about today’s journey – way too much for this blog space and my midnight blog writings. It was an experience that one will never forget and we are truly humbled by it. Once again our hearts are full and our journey is like no other.
Monday, September 24, 2007
Take my breath away ....
Today had been a day that the wind has gone out of our sails. For those who want to know more about the encounters of this day please go to Nicole's blog site http://www.fourskibums.blogspot.com/
Even though we feel that some governement officials allow politics to get in the way of the best interest of some of the children in this country, we are trying to get our breath back after such a blow to the stomach and continue with our mission here in Rwanda. Therefore today we are off to the Refugee Camp in Tanzania to meet with a fine young women who is part of the Esther Home.
We continue to have hope.
Finding Esther's Father
It was early morning when we started our journey to Butare. I slept well last night but this morning my anxiousness set in and I felt somewhat exhausted even before we started our trip.
Little Esther couldn’t get close enough to me – her touch was constant. At one point she took paper and pen and wrote a sweet letter to her sister Glacier. Already the tears were stinging my eyes and the day had just begun.
After our two hour journey, one switchback after another, we finally arrived and was greeted by Violate - our sweet Violate.
We made our way to the orphanage to find Esther’s brother – only to find that he was housed at a different facility. We then went to see the headmaster of the orphanage, Brother Joel – we visited with him for a short time. We were told that Jules was visiting his father deep in the village. So on our way we went, again bouncing around on the deeply rutted roads. We arrived at Esther’s grandma’s village – made our way down the steep path. The father, sister and brother were not there. My heart stopped – thinking that our trip was not going to be successful. Finally we found a girl, Esther’s cousin, who told us that the father was living in another village and she would take us to him. Once again we were on the path up to the van – it was again a reminder why I wouldn’t be able to endure the hike to see the Gorillas. The elevation had my lungs working overtime. Finally after three hours of traveling on extremely rutted roads (believe me my back was feeling each and every rut).we found Esther’s father, brother and sister. Esther’s father was being housed by his God father. His house had been destroyed and the land was sold so he had no place to go once he was released from prison. He was so happy to see us and right away handed us two letters – on for Esther and one for Nicole and Rich. I believe he thought that the adoption had already taken place. Esther was so happy to finally meet him – my heart was pounding out of my chest and of course, my eyes were watering behind my sunglasses.
Children and women from the neighboring huts gathered around while we sat on a long bench and visited about the adoption process. We asked him if he still agreed to have Esther adopted. He did not hesitate in his decision. To observe the closeness of the four of them was overwhelming. Esther’s father, brother and sister were strong in their decision to give Esther this opportunity. They trust that she will one day come back to her country and become a leader.
After much conversing we decided to bring Esther’s father back with us to Kigali so that he could meet with the Minister of Gender and Family Promotion to assure her of his decision and commitment to Esther and Nicole and Rich. He went inside the hut and changed into the clothes that we had brought him when we visited him at the prison. The family piled into the van and we then took the brother, sister and the cousin home and took the father with us.
Esther sat close to him on the drive – they visited some and you could see their love for each other.
At one point he pulled out his prison release papers and showed them to us. They stated that he was innocent of any crimes. We were so sad as we realized he was in prison for 13 years without cause. He is a man of great faith and his faith never faltered while in prison- he said that his faith just grew stronger.
Robert, our university sponsor child, was our interpreter – once again he managed to carry the conversation and provide a deep understanding for both Esther’s father and us.
There are no words to explain the sight Esther and her father interacting - the kindness and love he extended to us was incredible. Here was a young man of 49 who had been in prison since he was in the prime of his life at the age of 36. He wasn’t bitter or angry – he felt very blessed that God loved him and given him his freedom. It continues to amaze us how the genocide continues to have its affects on the lives of the people in Rwanda.
Today is a day that will be embedded in our minds and hearts forever!
Little Esther couldn’t get close enough to me – her touch was constant. At one point she took paper and pen and wrote a sweet letter to her sister Glacier. Already the tears were stinging my eyes and the day had just begun.
After our two hour journey, one switchback after another, we finally arrived and was greeted by Violate - our sweet Violate.
We made our way to the orphanage to find Esther’s brother – only to find that he was housed at a different facility. We then went to see the headmaster of the orphanage, Brother Joel – we visited with him for a short time. We were told that Jules was visiting his father deep in the village. So on our way we went, again bouncing around on the deeply rutted roads. We arrived at Esther’s grandma’s village – made our way down the steep path. The father, sister and brother were not there. My heart stopped – thinking that our trip was not going to be successful. Finally we found a girl, Esther’s cousin, who told us that the father was living in another village and she would take us to him. Once again we were on the path up to the van – it was again a reminder why I wouldn’t be able to endure the hike to see the Gorillas. The elevation had my lungs working overtime. Finally after three hours of traveling on extremely rutted roads (believe me my back was feeling each and every rut).we found Esther’s father, brother and sister. Esther’s father was being housed by his God father. His house had been destroyed and the land was sold so he had no place to go once he was released from prison. He was so happy to see us and right away handed us two letters – on for Esther and one for Nicole and Rich. I believe he thought that the adoption had already taken place. Esther was so happy to finally meet him – my heart was pounding out of my chest and of course, my eyes were watering behind my sunglasses.
Children and women from the neighboring huts gathered around while we sat on a long bench and visited about the adoption process. We asked him if he still agreed to have Esther adopted. He did not hesitate in his decision. To observe the closeness of the four of them was overwhelming. Esther’s father, brother and sister were strong in their decision to give Esther this opportunity. They trust that she will one day come back to her country and become a leader.
After much conversing we decided to bring Esther’s father back with us to Kigali so that he could meet with the Minister of Gender and Family Promotion to assure her of his decision and commitment to Esther and Nicole and Rich. He went inside the hut and changed into the clothes that we had brought him when we visited him at the prison. The family piled into the van and we then took the brother, sister and the cousin home and took the father with us.
Esther sat close to him on the drive – they visited some and you could see their love for each other.
At one point he pulled out his prison release papers and showed them to us. They stated that he was innocent of any crimes. We were so sad as we realized he was in prison for 13 years without cause. He is a man of great faith and his faith never faltered while in prison- he said that his faith just grew stronger.
Robert, our university sponsor child, was our interpreter – once again he managed to carry the conversation and provide a deep understanding for both Esther’s father and us.
There are no words to explain the sight Esther and her father interacting - the kindness and love he extended to us was incredible. Here was a young man of 49 who had been in prison since he was in the prime of his life at the age of 36. He wasn’t bitter or angry – he felt very blessed that God loved him and given him his freedom. It continues to amaze us how the genocide continues to have its affects on the lives of the people in Rwanda.
Today is a day that will be embedded in our minds and hearts forever!
To dream .....
Early morning we all gathered at the Dream Center where we met hundreds of children – some were from the streets while others where from economically poor families - they were there for the meal. As we approached we saw them all lined up doing simple exercises to start their day. We visited the wood shop - a new program for the street boys, boys who were uneducated and are now too old to be accepted into high school or elementary. There they were sawing boards for a table with a hand saw – all their carpentry is basically done with hand tools. Bunny’s hiking group – an elderly group that averages 75 years of age, sent monies with Bunny for the Esther Home Program. Bunny thought it would be nice for the street boys to make book shelves for the Esther Home library – as we brought with us 71 pounds of books.
We then proceeded to the main building that housed hundreds of children – they were singing and praying – the most amazing experience. Bunny and myself befriended a small child that wanted to sit on our laps – she was about 3 years old – she was so amazed by Bunny’s short gray hair and my long blonde hair – her little fingers never left our heads.
The children performed for us singing and dancing. We then broke into small groups and sat under the trees to shade our self from the blazing sun. We shared with the children stories about America. They were curious about the ways of American children and politics – fortunately for me my questions weren’t too taxing – Ron’s group was a bit more challenging.
Before we left everyone’s hearts grew larger - Ron committed to sponsoring a young boy who escaped from a Refugee Camp – Bunny had found an older boy that was in need of glasses - she provided with funds for transportation, doctor fees and for glasses. He was so very thankful. Dan befriend the camp leader, John, exchanged email addresses, John is looking to continue his university studies but is lacking tuition and Dan’s big heart lead him to committing to finding sponsorship for John. Once again we were so impressed with the Africa New Life program and their focus and support of the poorest of the poorest. Many children had come to the Dream Center who had not had a meal in many days. The Dream Center provides a feeding program twice a week. As we drove away, once again our hearts were full!
After lunch we gathered up all our gifts and supplies for the Esther Home and proceeded to the New Life Church to meet the Esther Home Girls. We waited anxiously for their arrival. It is hard to describe the emotions that I felt – I was nervous, anxious, excited – my emotions were all over the place. Through the door came 12 beautiful young women – they arrived with some shyness – introduced themselves to us – my first thought was how were we going to remember all these names. They grouped together and listened intensely to Pastor Emma while he talked about the Esther Home program – Florence who is the Esther Home’s mentor and program leader kindly introduced each of us. One could see that the girls were a bit anxious and excited – I can’t even imagine what emotions that they felt. I was the first to visit with them – sharing with them my personal background, my visions for the Esther Home. I introduced to them my dear friend Cathy and her husband Steve – explaining that we partnership with them to make this program a reality. Ron then took center stage – his emotions were running high and he had paused for a moment to get control of them. (It was probably best that the girls get to know Ron’s character and how sentimental he is right from the get go.) He visited with them about how the Esther Home got its name (honoring our sweet Esther and representative of the biblical Esther) he continued to explain the meaning of each letter – Elevating Students Through Hope & Education in Rwanda. The girls were in awe of this. Ron went on to talk to them about the act of giving – asking them to give back to their community with their time, give back in sponsoring a child or women – giving back to themselves by saving a few dollars from their personal allowance each month – setting up a bank savings account. Ron held all the girls captive while he talked about the gift of giving and the opportunity for leadership and the success of the program for future Esther Home girls. Dan and Bunny spoke a few touching words – words that generated more tears and emotions. Bunny became the official Esther Home Grandmother.
After our visit at the church we then piled into two vans and made our way to the Esther Home. As each of the girls stepped shyly out of the van you could see their eyes grow wider and the smiles on their faces were spreading. As they stepped into the home their voices came alive and they chatted with excitement – it was nothing like they had dreamed of. They toured the home and they were excited to see the large bedrooms and all the bathrooms – one of the bathrooms housed a bath – this is when all the girls started chatting in high voices with excitement. We then gathered around – presented them with the Messenger Bags and school supplies, Esther Home t-shirts, greeting cards with our new logo on it (everyone loves the new logo!). All the girls immediately put on their t-shirts. Ron presented them with the Esther Home Sweat shirts – gifted from Dave Bartels – Dan’s Brother, Bunny’s son. Excitement was in the air. Photos were taken and each girl then shared her story while Ron video recorded.
We left the home – you could just feel the immense emotions and the spirit of each girl. A dream come true – prayers were answered and hope was alive.
Next stop was for pizza – of course Ron over ordered – go figure – but the appetites managed to consume most of them. We sat amongst the girls and visited – laughter and excitement was in the air. As I looked around at each of them wearing their sun-colored Esther Home t-shirt I felt my heart expand with such pride. Truly dreams do come true!
Saturday, September 22, 2007
Friday, September 21, 2007
Village Visits
Another beautiful and heartfelt day for this team of four. Dan, Bunny, Ron and I made our way back to Kayonza today – again our sweet Bunny was focused on the magical roadside life of Rwanda. This is the planting season and the fields were crowed with workers side by side hoeing the soil plots under the blazing sun.
We arrived at the New Life Academy – it continues to change each time we come back here – more buildings and the grounds are beautiful. This time we witnessed all the children using the new beautiful dining hall. We were warmly greeted by the staff and headmaster. We toured each of the orphanages and then our sweet Esther joined us. My heart was beating as she rushed in and hugged Ron and then made her way to me. She hasn’t changed much, she is as beautiful as ever and her English was so good – her lessons for the past seven months has truly enhanced her English speaking skills. Of course her first English words - when was Rich and Nicole going to come and get here. I felt a little panic in my stomach knowing that I had to explain to her that her father, after 13 years, was released from prison and that we needed to get additional paperwork for the adoption process to be completed. She seemed disappointed and a bit curious about her father and why we needed to do more. We went on to explain more and she finally understood. She opened the gifts that was brought for her – she especially liked the photo album and kept turning back to her and Glacier’s bedroom. She cuddled close to me and told us that she was praying for us and praying that it would be soon for her to come to America. My heart was so tender and there were a few tears, we all felt deep emotion. Esther changed out of her school uniform into her new clothes and off we went on our village visits.
Prior to the visits we had lunch – needless to say the four of us basically stayed with the rice and fries while the others devoured the fish and chicken. The chicken lacked any meat what so ever and the fish laid on the platter looking at you. We all had a good laugh about it.
We loaded the van with sacks of rice, cases of soap, bags of sugar, oil and skin Vaseline and made our way to three sponsor families. Each visit was so heart felt – Dan became the “Candy Man” – children were running along with the van and when we stopped they seem to come out of everywhere. There was Dan – pockets full of candy – children gathered around him – big eyes and wide smiles were everywhere. They loved him and he them. Then there was Bunny right in the mix of everyone – children were attached to her the minute she stepped out of the van. Mothers starred at her in awe and little ones wanted to sit by her and touch her. She became grandmother to all. Our Esther now has a new grandma in Bunny – she helped carry the food bags that Bunny had prepared for each family, trail mix, beef jerky and dried fruit – it became there little routine at each stop.
As always, each family was so appreciative of their supplies, gifts and most of all - our visit. Of course, Ron with camera in hand, engaged everyone in a photo and then showed them the digital images – their laughter was contagious and they encourage Ron to take more.
As we visited one of the Raymond sponsor families we noticed that their tin roof had scores of holes in it – with the rainy season to begin in the next few weeks – it was apparent that their mud hut would not withstand the rain. Dan and Bunny, with their big hearts and loving ways, decided to supply this family with a new roof for their home. There are no words to describe the immense power of their gesture.
Ron and I enjoyed seeing each of the families once again – it was incredible how each of them felt like they were a part of our family – the comfort that everyone felt – the love they poured out to us. Once again a Peace Basket was gifted to us – this time for the Raymond family. The family explained that they had not much to give in appreciation but this was made especially for them from their hearts. Each visit was as powerful and the impact was felt by all.
Our day in the village left us all emotional drained and our hearts full! Each day brings us a new sense of these beautiful people and the wonderful work that is being done by Africa New Life.
Rwanda Rwanda – beautiful Rwanda – the heart of Africa. Our hearts are full!
We arrived at the New Life Academy – it continues to change each time we come back here – more buildings and the grounds are beautiful. This time we witnessed all the children using the new beautiful dining hall. We were warmly greeted by the staff and headmaster. We toured each of the orphanages and then our sweet Esther joined us. My heart was beating as she rushed in and hugged Ron and then made her way to me. She hasn’t changed much, she is as beautiful as ever and her English was so good – her lessons for the past seven months has truly enhanced her English speaking skills. Of course her first English words - when was Rich and Nicole going to come and get here. I felt a little panic in my stomach knowing that I had to explain to her that her father, after 13 years, was released from prison and that we needed to get additional paperwork for the adoption process to be completed. She seemed disappointed and a bit curious about her father and why we needed to do more. We went on to explain more and she finally understood. She opened the gifts that was brought for her – she especially liked the photo album and kept turning back to her and Glacier’s bedroom. She cuddled close to me and told us that she was praying for us and praying that it would be soon for her to come to America. My heart was so tender and there were a few tears, we all felt deep emotion. Esther changed out of her school uniform into her new clothes and off we went on our village visits.
Prior to the visits we had lunch – needless to say the four of us basically stayed with the rice and fries while the others devoured the fish and chicken. The chicken lacked any meat what so ever and the fish laid on the platter looking at you. We all had a good laugh about it.
We loaded the van with sacks of rice, cases of soap, bags of sugar, oil and skin Vaseline and made our way to three sponsor families. Each visit was so heart felt – Dan became the “Candy Man” – children were running along with the van and when we stopped they seem to come out of everywhere. There was Dan – pockets full of candy – children gathered around him – big eyes and wide smiles were everywhere. They loved him and he them. Then there was Bunny right in the mix of everyone – children were attached to her the minute she stepped out of the van. Mothers starred at her in awe and little ones wanted to sit by her and touch her. She became grandmother to all. Our Esther now has a new grandma in Bunny – she helped carry the food bags that Bunny had prepared for each family, trail mix, beef jerky and dried fruit – it became there little routine at each stop.
As always, each family was so appreciative of their supplies, gifts and most of all - our visit. Of course, Ron with camera in hand, engaged everyone in a photo and then showed them the digital images – their laughter was contagious and they encourage Ron to take more.
As we visited one of the Raymond sponsor families we noticed that their tin roof had scores of holes in it – with the rainy season to begin in the next few weeks – it was apparent that their mud hut would not withstand the rain. Dan and Bunny, with their big hearts and loving ways, decided to supply this family with a new roof for their home. There are no words to describe the immense power of their gesture.
Ron and I enjoyed seeing each of the families once again – it was incredible how each of them felt like they were a part of our family – the comfort that everyone felt – the love they poured out to us. Once again a Peace Basket was gifted to us – this time for the Raymond family. The family explained that they had not much to give in appreciation but this was made especially for them from their hearts. Each visit was as powerful and the impact was felt by all.
Our day in the village left us all emotional drained and our hearts full! Each day brings us a new sense of these beautiful people and the wonderful work that is being done by Africa New Life.
Rwanda Rwanda – beautiful Rwanda – the heart of Africa. Our hearts are full!
Thursday, September 20, 2007
Women For Women
After our introduction to the Women For Women organization we headed to the Kayonza district. The last half of our two hour drive was on deeply rutted roads into the remote village. Upon our arrival about 80 women greeted us – they immediately started singing and dancing. The smile on their faces was contagious. My sponsor “sister” was introduced to us – shyly she hugged me and whispered in her small voice how very happy she was to meet me in person. We stood together holding each other for longest time as the other women looked on.
The children gathered around and right away Bunny stole their hearts. She took their photo and then showed them the digital image – they laughed and twirled around with excitement. At first they were very shy around the camera but once they saw their image they trailed Bunny every where she went. The women were so surprised at Bunny’s age and that Dan was her son – they clapped in celebration and acknowledgment.
Today each group was discussing and learning about HIV prevention and care. They asked us if we had this disease in America and how did married couples live with the disease. Some of the women spoke up and told us how the training that Women for Women provided them had changed their lives. Over 50% of the group was widowed women, many were not widowed but without husbands and economically deprived.
In the program the women are given a small amount of money - they are taught how to save the money and are given a bank account. Once the year of training is finished the group of 20 will decide how to spend the monies that has been saved. Some groups buy a cow while others start small businesses; collectively they all work together on the project. We were very impressed with the program and the staff. It was heartwarming to experience the hope and progression that the program offers these women.
After we said our goodbyes and captured a few more photos we headed to Claudine’s home. We were greeted warmly by Claudine’s mother and elderly aunt. Neighbors gathered around to witness the visit – wide eyed and curious.
Claudine lives with her mother, father, her two children, her brother and sister in a small two room hut. They had prepared for our visit by decorating their hut - hanging sorghum from the ceiling – the walls were freshly painted with white chalk like paste. The dirt yard had been swept clean and they were all dressed in their Sunday best.
During our visit we were told that the only food source that this village had was sorghum, beans and bananas. Rice is considered only for the more affluent families. Before we left Bunny gave them two large bags of beef jerky, dried fruit and trail mix. They were unsure of what they had been given but pleased to have been presented with food.
Prior to our departure Claudine gifted us a peace basket that she had made especially for our visit. Inside there was a photo of her and her two children. You could see in her eyes that she was pleased with her gift and so joyful that we were appreciative of it.
We gathered the family for a photo, said our goodbyes and as we drove away we noticed that everyone was waving aggressively and wearing huge smiles.
Our hearts were full!
The children gathered around and right away Bunny stole their hearts. She took their photo and then showed them the digital image – they laughed and twirled around with excitement. At first they were very shy around the camera but once they saw their image they trailed Bunny every where she went. The women were so surprised at Bunny’s age and that Dan was her son – they clapped in celebration and acknowledgment.
Today each group was discussing and learning about HIV prevention and care. They asked us if we had this disease in America and how did married couples live with the disease. Some of the women spoke up and told us how the training that Women for Women provided them had changed their lives. Over 50% of the group was widowed women, many were not widowed but without husbands and economically deprived.
In the program the women are given a small amount of money - they are taught how to save the money and are given a bank account. Once the year of training is finished the group of 20 will decide how to spend the monies that has been saved. Some groups buy a cow while others start small businesses; collectively they all work together on the project. We were very impressed with the program and the staff. It was heartwarming to experience the hope and progression that the program offers these women.
After we said our goodbyes and captured a few more photos we headed to Claudine’s home. We were greeted warmly by Claudine’s mother and elderly aunt. Neighbors gathered around to witness the visit – wide eyed and curious.
Claudine lives with her mother, father, her two children, her brother and sister in a small two room hut. They had prepared for our visit by decorating their hut - hanging sorghum from the ceiling – the walls were freshly painted with white chalk like paste. The dirt yard had been swept clean and they were all dressed in their Sunday best.
During our visit we were told that the only food source that this village had was sorghum, beans and bananas. Rice is considered only for the more affluent families. Before we left Bunny gave them two large bags of beef jerky, dried fruit and trail mix. They were unsure of what they had been given but pleased to have been presented with food.
Prior to our departure Claudine gifted us a peace basket that she had made especially for our visit. Inside there was a photo of her and her two children. You could see in her eyes that she was pleased with her gift and so joyful that we were appreciative of it.
We gathered the family for a photo, said our goodbyes and as we drove away we noticed that everyone was waving aggressively and wearing huge smiles.
Our hearts were full!
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
Beautiful Rwanda
Without incident, our little team of four landed on the rich red soil of Rwanda. Beautiful Rwanda! The moment we stepped off the aircraft there was that familiar scent of the country. Dinner had just been prepared on thousands of makeshift wood stoves - filtering the skies with a thin layer of smoke. The weather is mild – the cool temperatures in the evening warrants a light sweater – where the daytime heat is comfortable and summer like – it is only a few weeks away from the rainy season.
Needless to say our luggage quantity called for two vehicles to transport them. 300 pounds of books and supplies were safely stored at the Mission House avoiding the massive handling of the overstuffed luggage at the hotel.
After a much needed night of sleep we awoke rested and ready for action. Along with our driver, interpreter and Charles we headed to a local establishment where we shopped for furniture for the Esther Home. After a an hour or so and with a clear idea of what was needed we gathered up our cost figures and headed to the Esther Home to further evaluate the needs and the space.
When we approached the Esther Home, I must admit, my stomach had butterflies moving around in constant motion. My heart was palpitating at a high rate of speed. The feeling of excitement was in the air. Once the gates opened and we parked - there was an overwhelming sense of pride and anticipation of what is to come. To envision 13 girls living in this beautiful home – a home that they will call their own for the next four years – was so very powerful.
The Esther Home is surrounded by a beautiful landscape yard – rooms are spacious and logistically located as if it was built with the purpose of housing these 13 girls. Behind the main living area – connected by a long walkway – was a separate area where the house mother will live. After our tour, we sat comfortably in the main living area and shared our visions for the program and the opportunities that will be provided for each of the Esther Home girls. When it was time to leave I looked around again and my heart was full!
Our next stop was to fill our stomachs – the time had gotten away from us and it was mid afternoon by the time we had lunch. We made our way to Hotel Rwanda. It was a bit surreal to be there – a place where so much devastation had taken place during the genocide. A few scenes from the once popular movie Hotel Rwanda vividly replayed themselves my mind. It was hard not to concentrate on all that went on there.
I loved witnessing Dan and Bunny take in all that the roadside scenes had to offer. The motorcycle taxis weaved their way in and out of traffic, there were pedestrians walking everywhere, hiking up steep hills while managing heavy loads on top of their heads.
We all look forward to what will unfold in the next few days. Tomorrow we will travel 2 hours north of the Kayonza district, where we will meet with women who are sponsored through Women for Women International The training center houses 80 women – the group that my sponsored sister trains with is a total of 20. My sponsor sister is 45 years of age, a mother of 2, healthy - economically poor and uneducated. We have been invited to visit her home and children – which is rather a long walk from the center. We are looking forward to this visit and our travles through the country side.
7:30 am pick up is scheduled for our long day in the village - so with that in mind everyone concluded the evening at a reasonable hour. What a wonderful first day of our Rwanda journey!
We send our love to family and friends – we carry your spirit and love with us.
Needless to say our luggage quantity called for two vehicles to transport them. 300 pounds of books and supplies were safely stored at the Mission House avoiding the massive handling of the overstuffed luggage at the hotel.
After a much needed night of sleep we awoke rested and ready for action. Along with our driver, interpreter and Charles we headed to a local establishment where we shopped for furniture for the Esther Home. After a an hour or so and with a clear idea of what was needed we gathered up our cost figures and headed to the Esther Home to further evaluate the needs and the space.
When we approached the Esther Home, I must admit, my stomach had butterflies moving around in constant motion. My heart was palpitating at a high rate of speed. The feeling of excitement was in the air. Once the gates opened and we parked - there was an overwhelming sense of pride and anticipation of what is to come. To envision 13 girls living in this beautiful home – a home that they will call their own for the next four years – was so very powerful.
The Esther Home is surrounded by a beautiful landscape yard – rooms are spacious and logistically located as if it was built with the purpose of housing these 13 girls. Behind the main living area – connected by a long walkway – was a separate area where the house mother will live. After our tour, we sat comfortably in the main living area and shared our visions for the program and the opportunities that will be provided for each of the Esther Home girls. When it was time to leave I looked around again and my heart was full!
Our next stop was to fill our stomachs – the time had gotten away from us and it was mid afternoon by the time we had lunch. We made our way to Hotel Rwanda. It was a bit surreal to be there – a place where so much devastation had taken place during the genocide. A few scenes from the once popular movie Hotel Rwanda vividly replayed themselves my mind. It was hard not to concentrate on all that went on there.
I loved witnessing Dan and Bunny take in all that the roadside scenes had to offer. The motorcycle taxis weaved their way in and out of traffic, there were pedestrians walking everywhere, hiking up steep hills while managing heavy loads on top of their heads.
We all look forward to what will unfold in the next few days. Tomorrow we will travel 2 hours north of the Kayonza district, where we will meet with women who are sponsored through Women for Women International The training center houses 80 women – the group that my sponsored sister trains with is a total of 20. My sponsor sister is 45 years of age, a mother of 2, healthy - economically poor and uneducated. We have been invited to visit her home and children – which is rather a long walk from the center. We are looking forward to this visit and our travles through the country side.
7:30 am pick up is scheduled for our long day in the village - so with that in mind everyone concluded the evening at a reasonable hour. What a wonderful first day of our Rwanda journey!
We send our love to family and friends – we carry your spirit and love with us.
Monday, September 17, 2007
Leaving on a Jet Plane
We're off with 300 pounds of books, supplies and small gifts for our Esther Home girls. We are excited to embark on our journey back to Rwanda - visiting with all our new friends, our sponsor families, the Esther Home girls - their families and most importantly, our sweet Esther. Ron & Dan will be Gorilla Trekking this trip - we will be traveling a great deal of the country - making our way to Lake Kivu - Kayonza - Butare. This morning there is much excitement in the air and anticipation. We bring with us all the good wishes and support from our family and friends. Our hearts are full!
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